The Unadjusted Girl, With Cases and Standpoint for Behavior AnalysisThomas, William Isaac
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The Unadjusted Girl, With Cases and Standpoint for Behavior Analysis
Thomas, William Isaac
Female juvenile delinquents -- Case studies; Young women
The fundamental function of woman being motherhood, this with its
secondary manifestations explains much of her behavior. The devotion of
the young girl to the cadet who enslaves her reveals the same instinct
which holds a wife faithful through difficulties and degradation,—the
instinct from which have developed the virtues of loyalty, endurance and
self-sacrifice. The period of pregnancy should be (if the imagination be
not filled with old wives’ tales) one of health, exhilaration,
development of psychic values and social consciousness. Any woman
experiencing this wonderful functioning should be aided to as complete
psycho-biological fulfillment as her personality and the social
situation permit. Should the higher love and association of the father
of her child be lacking, so much the greater is her need of genuine help
and encouragement. Given this, she may be strengthened and stabilized
whether the man desert or become disaffected before or after a legal
ceremony.
Though mating and its resulting responsibilities have evolved our
highest virtues, marriage is now under attack. Not only are divorce and
illegitimacy evidenced as showing its failure, but intellectual women
are demanding freedom and self-expression which they find doubtful in
marriage. In Paris one woman who believed the relation of the unmarried
mother to her child more ethical under French law than that of the
married mother, lived out of wedlock for years of monogamous mating, her
daughter bearing her name. She and the father of her child were leaders
in La Ligue pour le Droit des Femmes, of which Victor Hugo was an early
president. Fundamentally this attack is encouraging, indicating effort
to bring law up to newer ideals of ethical mating. Man’s marriage law
was based upon economics, upon the idea of possession and inheritance of
possessions. In Scandinavia, where woman has for some time been voting,
there is a tendency to make the law conform to biology. In Norway all
births are registered. The father as well as the mother must be held
responsible and there are no illegitimate children. Under their law for
children born out of wedlock which went into effect in 1915, in only
nine out of the first five thousand cases was paternity contested. Here
law is conforming to biologic fact. Before science can offer a new
marriage law the psychology of mating must be further studied. Women are
classifying as prostitution a marriage in which psychical values are
ignored. They seek chastity in marriage according to the definition
given in Doctor S. Herbert’s Fundamentals in Sexual Ethics,
“Chastity—true chastity—has reference not so much to actions as to
feelings and motives. It is the quality of the emotion in relation to
sexual acts that constitutes a state of purity or impurity.”
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