The Unadjusted Girl, With Cases and Standpoint for Behavior AnalysisThomas, William Isaac
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The Unadjusted Girl, With Cases and Standpoint for Behavior Analysis
Thomas, William Isaac
Female juvenile delinquents -- Case studies; Young women
To claim that a girl need not be ruined or may recover from sex conflict
expressed or repressed is not advocating promiscuity. Far from it. Nor
in this effort of women to free themselves from the blunders hidden
under the sanction of marriage should young people be encouraged to
believe that to repeat those same blunders freely is the ideal of
mating. Much nervous disease and delinquency are traceable to early
emotional shock. Each case requires special study of personality. The
results of any conflict are dependent upon previous environment,
training, characteristics, interests, ideals. Freud says that if two
little girls, one the daughter of intellectual parents, the other the
child of the janitor, should have some sex experience, the former might
later suffer neurosis while the latter would probably be unharmed. Cases
of disease and of delinquency show the persistence of the association of
idea, the strange continuance of symptoms fixed as conditioned reflexes
which hamper a human being for years. Recent study of pre-delinquent
groups has revealed children “with normal or even superior native
endowment who are prevented from showing their ability by factors acting
upon their feelings.” These illustrate the dangers of affectional
wound,—the sensitivity of personality to emotional shock. A conflict may
make or break an individual.
Just what is it which differentiates between two lives of similar
asocial behavior or suffering affectional wounds, one becoming
disorganized, the other attaining higher levels of mental and social
integration? Certain psychoanalytic biographies show struggles of
eminent men and women who passed through periods of mental strain or
moral failure, yet rose superior to and even strengthened by their
wrestling with life. Our revered Abraham Lincoln not only kept bride and
guests waiting on the first date set for his wedding, but disappeared
from family and friends for three days. Imagine the frenzy of the modern
press over such an event.
Psychiatrists are interpreting to nervous patients symptoms of strain
and sorrow, assisting them to assimilate such emotional experience and
to regain poise. It is possible to minimize sexual blunder as
unfortunate but not irreparable. One recovers from disease, from
disappointment. One lie told may bring from the parent an explanation of
the importance of truth and be a milestone on the upward path. Such
lesson, however, should never be based on condemnation but must be
linked with idealism. A wise physician said, “Nature tends toward
meliorism.” This accounts for the success of girls who pull themselves
up without aid.
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