The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 1 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristicsWood, J. G. (John George)
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The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 1 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristics
Wood, J. G. (John George)
Anthropology; Ethnology; Manners and customs
are dead, or that they cannot be identified. Such a case as this may
well occur in the course of a war, for the enemy will sometimes swoop
down on a kraal, and if their plans be well laid, will kill every male
inhabitant. Even if all are not killed, the survivors may be obliged to
flee for their lives, and thus it may often happen that a young girl
finds herself comparatively alone in the world. In such a case, she
would go to another chief of her tribe, or even to the king himself,
and ask permission to become one of his dependants, and many instances
have been known where such refugees have been received into tribes not
their own.
When a girl is received as a dependant, she is treated as a daughter,
and if she should happen to fall ill, her guardian would offer
sacrifices for her exactly as if she were one of his own daughters.
Should a suitor present himself, he will have to treat with the
guardian exactly as if he were the father, and to him will be paid
the cattle that are demanded at the wedding. Mr. Fynn mentions that
the women are very tenacious about their relatives, and that in many
cases when they could not identify their real relations, they have made
arrangements with strangers to declare relationship with them. It is
possible that this feeling arises from the notion that a husband would
have more respect for a wife who had relations than for one who had
none.
As an example of the curious minuteness with which the Kaffir law goes
into the details of domestic polity, it may be mentioned that if a
female dependant be married, and should afterward be fortunate enough
to discover her real relatives, they may claim the cattle paid for her
by the husband. But they must give one of the cows to her protector as
payment for her maintenance, and the trouble taken in marrying her.
Moreover, if any cattle have been sacrificed on her behalf, these must
be restored, together with any others that may have been slaughtered
at the marriage-feast. The fact that she is paid for by her husband
conveys no idea of degradation to a Kaffir woman. On the contrary, she
looks upon the fact as a proof of her own worth, and the more cattle
are paid for her, the prouder she becomes. Neither would the husband
like to take a wife without paying the proper sum for her, because
in the first place it would be a tacit assertion that the wife was
worthless, and in the second, it would be an admission that he could
not afford to pay the usual price. Moreover, the delivery of the
cattle, on the one side, and the delivery of the girl on the other,
are considered as constituting the validity of the marriage contract,
and are looked upon in much the same light as the giving of a ring by
the husband and the giving away of the bride by her father in our own
marriage ceremonies.
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