The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 2 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristicsWood, J. G. (John George)
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The uncivilized races of men in all countries of the world; vol. 2 of 2: Being a comprehensive account of their manners and customs, and of their physical, social, mental, moral and religious characteristics
Wood, J. G. (John George)
Anthropology; Ethnology; Manners and customs
Mostly, girls are betrothed when they are quite infants, no regard
being paid to disparity of age between themselves and their intended
husbands. The form of betrothal is rather curious, and consists in
the mother of the child taking a small liku, or woman’s girdle, and
presenting it to the man, who from that moment takes her daughter under
his protection until she is old enough to be married.
In those cases where a young man takes a liking to a young woman, he
asks her of her father, making at the same time a small present as a
matter of form. Should the application be successful, an interchange
of presents then takes place between the friends of both parties, and
in a few days follows the ceremony called “warming,” which consists in
conveying to the house of the bride some food prepared by the intended
husband. In most parts of Fiji, the bride has a complete holiday for
four days, sitting quietly at home, dressed in her finest apparel, and
painted with turmeric and oil. At the expiration of the four days,
she is taken by a number of married women to the sea, where they all
join in fishing, and afterward cook the fish that they have taken. The
cooking being completed, the bridegroom is sent for, and the betrothed
couple eat together, each giving the other a portion of food.
After this ceremony comes a period during which the bridegroom is
employed in building a house for his intended wife, and the girl
undergoes the painful tattooing which marks her as having taken her
place among women. During this time, she remains within the house so
as to shield her complexion from the sun. The house being completed,
all the friends of both families are gathered together, and a great
feast takes place, at which the givers make it a point of honor to be
as lavish as possible. At the end of this feast, the girl is formally
handed over to her husband, and exchanges her narrow liku for the
broader garment befitting her new condition.
When the daughter of an important chief is married, her father always
gives her a number of female attendants, sometimes as many as twelve
or fifteen accompanying the bride to her home. They are placed under
the charge of an elderly woman who acts as their superintendent, and
are called by a name which signifies a pet servant. There is always a
great scene at the departure of a bride to her home, all her relations
and friends crowding round her, and kissing her until she is nearly
smothered by their caresses.
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