The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternityWright, Henry Clarke
Philosophy
The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternity
Wright, Henry Clarke
Abortion; Sexual ethics
How will this new and dreaded experience affect her mind towards her
husband and the father of her child? As a lover, he had been so gentle,
so delicate, and so considerate of her slightest wish, so thoughtful of
her happiness, and so unwilling to say or do anything to grieve her
spirit; as a bridegroom, he had promised to love and cherish her as his
own soul; and she fondly trusted that no wrong or suffering would ever
reach her through him; when, behold! in the very beginning of their
united life, and before, physically or mentally, she was prepared to
meet the great demand, he has imposed on her the necessity of yielding
up her body and soul to the keenest suffering to which she can be
subjected; and that without consulting her wishes, and contrary, it may
be, to her earnest prayer. As she ponders on her situation, and the
experience through which she must pass, and from which death to herself,
or her child, or to both, is the only door of escape, how must she feel
towards him who has placed her in this fearful condition? He has
subjected her to the necessity, for weary months, of drinking the
bitterest cup of life, and of passing through the valley and shadow of
death, heart-sick, desponding and shrinking from the final result; and
all this, not because she wished to be a mother, or he a father, nor
that they might blend their bodies and souls in a new and beautiful
life, to be an honor to themselves and the world,—no such motive
prompted the relation in which conception originated; but solely his
momentary gratification. She feels that his indulgence was had at her
expense. No conscious pride and sense of matronly dignity, no high and
noble aspirations, sustain her, as she reflects on her condition. Can
she continue to love and respect him? He has done her the greatest
wrong. He heeded not her prayers that he would control his passion, and
spare her until she was ready joyfully to enter upon an office so grand
in its nature, and so sublime in its bearing on the destiny of an
immortal soul. To meet the responsibilities of such an office, and the
physical and mental pain and anguish necessarily pertaining to it, what
woman but needs a preparation? Who is sufficient for these things? Yet
the dread liabilities are upon her, without a moment’s warning, and
without, it may be, any interchange of thoughts and feelings with her
husband and the father of her child. She knows not even that he wants a
child, nor whether he will receive it with a blessing or a curse. She
knows not what heart-support she will receive from him in the moment of
her trial and her anguish. He has had no conversation with her on these
subjects, and given her no assurance as to the natural results to her of
his passional relations with her; expressed no anxiety, no expectations,
no hopes, as to her liability to become a mother. He has had no further
wish or anxiety, except for his own selfish gratification. He has, it
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