The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternity — John Shaqi
The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternityWright, Henry Clarke
Philosophy
The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternity
Wright, Henry Clarke
Abortion; Sexual ethics
What else do you do, when you impose on your wife a maternity unasked
and abhorred? You commit the development and education of your child,
during the most important and susceptible period of its existence, to
one who assures you she is not prepared for the charge, who entreats you
to spare her, and who loathes the very thought of its existence. Every
element of her womanly nature, for the time being, recoils from its
presence in her system. She pleads that you would spare her this burden,
at this time, and until her nature calls for it, and is prepared
joyfully to meet the martyrdom maternity must bring to her. Heedless of
her prayers, and, it may be, of threats of death to your child, you
demand the surrender of her person to your passion. Maternity ensues.
Murder enters her heart towards your child at the same time. She tries
to “get rid of it,”—to murder it. She succeeds. The young life you had
committed to her care is nipped in the bud, as you were assured it would
be before you resigned it to her keeping. Where rests the
responsibility? On you, primarily and mainly. You murdered your own
child, not, indeed, with your own hands,—you drove another to do the
desperate deed, and that other, your wife, who came to you with a loving
and trusting heart, to save and to be saved; and you, to gratify your
selfish passion, drove her to the commission of the crime of ante-natal
child-murder,—a crime that must forever weigh upon her soul like a
mountain of guilt and shame; a deed, after the doing of which, no true
woman can ever, in this life, stand proud and stainless, in conscious
innocence and dignity, before the tribunal of her womanhood. She has
done a deed for which great Nature can find no excuse but ignorance; but
which, even when done in ignorance, she regards as a violation of her
just laws, and punishes as such, with appropriate penalties,—the loss of
self-respect, and the consciousness of degradation.
Yet all this suffering, anguish, crime and conscious degradation, you,
the husband, have forced upon her, solely for the momentary, and, under
the circumstances, most unnatural, gratification of your sensual
passion,—a passion which, when controlled by manly love and wisdom, and
held in abeyance to the health, purity, and happiness of your wife and
children, would bring only honor to their hearts and to your home, but
which, when thus indulged without regard to the wishes and conditions of
your wife, and merely for your personal pleasure, spreads crime,
pollution, misery and death, all around.
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