The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternityWright, Henry Clarke
Philosophy
The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternity
Wright, Henry Clarke
Abortion; Sexual ethics
“Human decrees and enactments can never alter or reverse human
obligations. What is wrong without a license or commission from human
government, is wrong with such a license. If an undesigned and
undesired maternity be a dark and damning sin against the child, the
mother, and humanity, against God, without the sanction of the Church,
the State, and public opinion, it is a sin of an equally dark and
damning character with such sanction. In every case where the act that
leads to maternity would be a sin, a foul and monstrous crime, and the
shame and infamy of one or both parents, without the sanction of human
laws, it would be the same with such sanction, and in a legalized
union. Those women, therefore, who for any cause, allow an undesired
maternity to be imposed on them by men holding the legal relation of
husbands, and permit themselves to be made the means of giving
existence to children whom they do not want, in legal marriage, ought
to be, and one day will be, regarded in the same light as those are
who become mothers outside of wedlock. If it be wrong for a woman to
become a mother, without the consent of Church and State and society,
it is wrong for her to become a mother with such consent. If right
with such consent, it is right without it. Whatever it is right to do
with a civil, ecclesiastical or social license, it is right to do
without it.
“If woman’s life be made a curse by the constant endurance of
suffering, consequent upon a too-frequent maternity, the religious
woman often endeavors to stifle the outcries and accusations of reason
and intuition by the absurd plea that she ‘must have all the children
whom it is God’s will to send.’ Occasionally, one is found weak
enough, and wickedly fond enough, to say, as Miss Bremer, with
contemptible silliness, makes one of her amiable characters in ‘The
Home’ say, ‘that though she had such a large and rapidly increasing
family, and her husband’s means of providing for it were somewhat
limited, yet he _never grumbled_, and was always ready to welcome each
new child as it came!’ Grumble, indeed! A husband ‘grumbling’ that his
wife has conceived! A father ‘grumbling’ at the birth of a child!
‘Always ready to welcome each new child as it came!’—and this said by
a wife of her husband, as the strongest testimony to his manliness and
justice as a husband and father, and as the highest reason why she
should love and honor him! What man so base, so ignoble, so fallen,
and so deserving a dungeon or the gallows, as he who imparts the germ
of a new life to his wife, to gratify his passion, and then ‘grumbles’
because a child is born, and thrusts it from him? Man can give no
greater proof of the utter degradation and ruin of his moral nature.
Yet not to grumble at a maternity of his own imposing, and not to
repel and cast off the babe for whose undesired existence he is
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