The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternityWright, Henry Clarke
Philosophy
The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternity
Wright, Henry Clarke
Abortion; Sexual ethics
responsible, is Miss Bremer’s highest conception of manhood!
“But a false religious education is not the only reason why woman
weakly and unrighteously yields herself to the base and brutal passion
of her husband; for a passion, though all pure and ennobling when its
demands are just and naturally answered, becomes most base and
brutalizing to men and women, when indulged at the expense of the
child, and contrary to the wishes of the wife and mother. As society
is now constituted, she is his dependant. The laws make her
subservient to his will, while she continues a wife, and all-pervading
custom has, in great measure, deprived her of the dignity which an
independent ability to engage in business for herself, outside the
domestic circle, would confer.
“‘_Can do_ is easily carried about,’ is a pithy old Scottish proverb;
and this same ‘Can do’ is a good and sturdy staff of self-support,
when a woman finds that the man on whom she fondly leaned would become
to her, not a tower of strength and a refuge from the storm, but the
oppressor to crush both soul and body, and make of her very Womanhood
an unworthy thing. Let woman respect herself. She will gain nothing by
submitting to wrong and outrage. No wife ever gained or perpetuated
the love and respect of a husband, deserving the name, by yielding to
his passion, merely to please him.
“It is the popular, but foolish and unthinking belief, that children
owe great obligations to their parents for bringing them into life;
but is not the contrary the fact, that parents are under the strongest
possible obligations to their children to render that being good,
wise, and happy, which they themselves have forced upon their child?
Assuming this as self-evident, then is it clear that such existence
should not be the result of blind, unthinking passion, but of careful,
wise and loving design.
“The act in which the child originates is performed, often, solely for
the momentary gratification of one or both parents. No thought for the
welfare, the physical, mental and spiritual organization and
tendencies of the child that may ensue, is entertained. No careful and
anxious forethought for the character and destiny of the child is
exercised, but the gratification of mere animal passion is the sole
object sought. The child comes into being undesigned by the father and
undesired by the mother,—the offspring of reckless, selfish, sensual
lust, and not of tender, self-forgetting, noble love. How grievous the
wrong done by the father to the mother, and by the mother to herself,
and by both to the child who is thus thrust into the world by
violence! What hope can exist for such a child? The felon’s doom was
written on his soul before he was born. His parents consigned him to
the dungeon or the gallows ere he drew the breath of life.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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