The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternityWright, Henry Clarke
Philosophy
The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternity
Wright, Henry Clarke
Abortion; Sexual ethics
“The woman who, in youth, is flattered and caressed for the charms of
her person, the sweetness of her temper, and the goodness of her
heart, when married to a man who thus regards her as but the
instrument of his pleasure, soon loses the charms for which she was
caressed, and, while the husband is in his prime, she enters upon a
premature old age; her physical strength exhausted by the almost
constant suffering and agony attendant upon giving existence to those
poor, unwelcome ones,—her beauty faded, her temper soured, her whole
soul embittered by a consciousness of her hard lot, and her mental
nature stunted in its growth,—for what leisure has she to attend to
the wants of her own spirit, while her energies are taxed to the
utmost with the care of her living children, who are solely dependent
on her, and she preparing to add another to the number? How can she
fill the treasure-house of her own soul with ‘things new and old,’
under all these adverse circumstances, and while the present physical
wants of her little ones are constantly clamoring, ‘Give! give!’ Does
not reason, does not justice, demand for woman that she have full
opportunity for the development of her own Womanhood, soul, body, and
spirit? Has not she, as an individual child of God and member of the
human family, a _right_ to this? Does not the well-being of such
children as she may righteously bring into existence loudly call for a
full and _practical_ recognition, on the part of every husband and
every man, of her right to decide for herself when, how often, and
under what circumstances, she shall assume the office of Maternity, or
be subjected to the relation that may issue in maternity? Does not the
happiness, the best interest of the husband, require it? Does not
Humanity itself demand it?
“And how must that woman, in whose soul the theory of passive
obedience has not wholly eradicated nature, regard the husband who
causes her thus to curse ‘the day wherein she was born’ a woman? In
her inmost soul, she must look upon him as the half-enlightened slave
looks upon his master, and bitterly reproach him for victimizing her
to his own base passion, and for his own short-lived gratification,
irrespective of the woful consequences to her whom he has sworn to
cherish, honor and protect. And justly does she thus regard him. No
wife can love and honor such a husband. He is to her what the
executioner is to the victim, or the slaveholder to his crushed and
outraged slaves. She cannot but loathe him.
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