The value of a praying motherByrum, Isabel C. (Isabel Coston)
Religion
The value of a praying mother
Byrum, Isabel C. (Isabel Coston)
Prayer
Should some question concerning the mysteries of his own body or of his
own origin be aroused in his mind by impure stories or by any other
cause, you must at once arise to meet the difficulty before harm is
done that will be very difficult to overcome. But some mother will say:
"I do not know what answer to make my child when he asks questions of
such a delicate nature. Would it not be best to leave his mind free from
these ideas until he is older?" Doubtless it would, if the child would
be contented to wait; but when he has learned enough to ask the
question, he is able to tell whether you speak the truth when you say
you do not know, and he will not be satisfied by the flimsy pretest,
"Oh, run away and don't bother me; I'm too busy."
Above all else, keep the confidence of your child, so that he will come
to you with every trouble of life. Confidence of children in their
parents is a gift from God. All children have it at first. See the
tottering baby cling to its mother for support; watch it run to her when
it is frightened. Can it not have the same confidence when it is older?
I answer from experience that it can and should. Truth inspires trust
in your child. If you do not think it best to answer all his questions
fully at the time when he asks them, tell him at least enough to satisfy
his curiosity, and promise him that, if this remains a secret between
you and him, he may come to you whenever he wants more information. Do
not be afraid of having secrets with your child. The matter may be
trifling, but the fact that he is helping you to keep secrets will teach
him to value his word and will increase his confidence in you. On the
other hand, if you tell him an untruth, do not think that he will come
to you again. No, he will doubtless go to some friend who he thinks will
tell him, and thus get his young mind tainted with impure thoughts. And
little better in results than telling an untruth is putting the child
off till some future time. These questions must be met when they arrive.
You may say, "I don't know how much to tell at any one time." Wisdom is
necessary here. No more should be told than will satisfy the present
curiosity of the child. A few questions on your part will readily
discover what information he has gained and how much he wishes to know.
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