In other days it was the men who struggled the hardest against their
fate. Up to this century, the male had always been the ornamental member
of a family. Cæsar, we read, coveted a laurel crown principally because
it would help to conceal his baldness. The wigs of the Grand Monarque
are historical. It is characteristic of the time that the latter’s
attempts at rejuvenation should have been taken as a matter of course,
while a few years later poor Madame de Pompadour’s artifices to retain
her fleeting youth were laughed at and decried.
To-day the situation is reversed. The battle, given up by the men—who
now accept their fate with equanimity—is being waged by their better
halves with a vigor heretofore unknown. So general has this mania become
that if asked what one weakness was most characteristic of modern women,
what peculiarity marked them as different from their sisters in other
centuries, I should unhesitatingly answer, “The desire to look younger
than their years.”
That people should long to be handsomer or taller or better proportioned
than a cruel Providence has made them, is natural enough; but that so
much time and trouble should be spent simply in trying to look “young,”
does seem unreasonable, especially when it is evident to everybody that
such efforts must, in the nature of things, be failures. The men or
women who do not look their age are rare. In each generation there are
exceptions, people who, from one cause or another—generally an excellent
constitution—succeed in producing the illusion of youth for a few years
after youth itself has flown.
A curious fatality that has the air of a nemesis pursues those who
succeed in giving this false appearance. When pointing them out to
strangers, their admirers (in order to make the contrast more effective)
add a decade or so to the real age. Only last month I was sitting at
dinner opposite a famous French beauty, who at fifty succeeds in looking
barely thirty. During the meal both my neighbors directed attention to
her appearance, and in each case said: “Isn’t she a wonder! You know
she’s over sixty!” So all that poor lady gained by looking youthful was
ten years added to her age!
The desire to remain attractive as long as possible is not only a
reasonable but a commendable ambition. Unfortunately the stupid means
most of our matrons adopt to accomplish this end produce exactly the
opposite result.
One sign of deficient taste in our day is this failure to perceive that
every age has a charm of its own which can be enhanced by appropriate
surroundings, but is lost when placed in an incongruous setting. It
saddens a lover of the beautiful to see matrons going so far astray in
their desire to please as to pose for young women when they no longer can
look the part.
Holmes, in _My Maiden Aunt_, asks plaintively:—
_Why will she train that wintry curl in such a springlike way_?
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