That this folly is in the air to-day, few will dispute. It seems to be
perpetrated unconsciously by the greater number, with no particular
object in view, simply because other people do it. An unanswerable
argument when used by one of the fair sex!
Few matrons stop to think for themselves, or they would realize that by
appearing in the same attire as their daughters they challenge a
comparison which can only be to their disadvantage, and should be if
possible avoided. Is there any disillusion more painful than, on
approaching what appeared from a distance to be a young girl, to find
one’s self face to face with sixty years of wrinkles? That is a modern
version of the saying, “an old head on young shoulders,” with a
vengeance! If mistaken sexagenarians could divine the effect that tired
eyes smiling from under false hair, aged throats clasped with collars of
pearls, and rheumatic old ribs braced into a semblance of girlish grace,
produce on the men for whose benefit such adornments have been arranged,
reform would quickly follow. There is something absolutely uncanny in
the illusion. The more successful it is, the more weird the effect.
No one wants to see Polonius in the finery of Mercutio. What a sense of
fitness demands is, on the contrary, a “make up” in keeping with the
rôle, which does not mean that a woman is to become a frump, but only
that she is to make herself attractive in another way.
During the _Ancien Régime_ in France, matters of taste were considered
all-important; an entire court would consult on the shade of a brocade,
and hail a new coiffure as an event. The great ladies who had left their
youth behind never then committed the blunder, so common among our
middle-aged ladies, of aping the maidens of the day. They were far too
clever for that, and appreciated the advantages to be gained from sombre
stuffs and flattering laces. Let those who doubt study Nattier’s
exquisite portrait of Maria Leczinska. Nothing in the pose or toilet
suggests a desire on the painter’s part to rejuvenate his sitter. If
anything, the queen’s age is emphasized as something honorable. The gray
hair is simply arranged and partly veiled with black lace, which sets off
her delicate, faded face to perfection, but without flattery or fraud.
We find the same view taken of age by the masters of the Renaissance, who
appreciated its charm and loved to reproduce its grace.
Queen Elizabeth stands out in history as a woman who struggled
ungracefully against growing old. Her wigs and hoops and farthingales
served only to make her ridiculous, and the fact that she wished to be
painted without shadows in order to appear “young,” is recorded as an
aberration of a great mind.
Are there no painters to-day who will whisper to our wives and mothers
the secret of looking really lovely, and persuade them to abandon their
foolish efforts at rejuvenation?
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