As the words “position” and “set” have no meaning to her young ears, and
no one has ever preached to her the importance of improving her social
standing, the acquaintances that chance throws in her path are accepted
without question if they happen to be good-looking and amusing. She has
no prejudice as to standing, and if her supply of partners runs short,
she will dance and flirt with the clerk from the desk in perfect good
humor—in fact, she stands rather in awe of that functionary, and admires
the “English” cut of his clothes and his Eastern swagger. A large hotel
is her dream of luxury, and a couple of simultaneous flirtations her
ideal of bliss. No long evenings of cruel boredom, in order to be seen
at smart houses, will cloud the maiden’s career, no agonized anticipation
of retiring partnerless from cotillion or supper will disturb her
pleasure.
In the city she hails from, everybody she knows lives in about the same
style. Some are said to be wealthier than others, but nothing in their
way of life betrays the fact; the art of knowing how to enjoy wealth
being but little understood outside of our one or two great cities. She
has that tranquil sense of being the social equal of the people she
meets, the absence of which makes the snob’s life a burden.
During her summers away from home our “young friend” will meet other
girls of her age, and form friendships that result in mutual visiting
during the ensuing winter, when she will continue to add more new names
to the long list of her admirers, until one fine morning she writes home
to her delighted parents that she has found the right man at last, and
engaged herself to him.
Never having penetrated to those sacred centres where birth and wealth
are considered all-important, and ignoring the supreme importance of
living in one set, the plan of life that such a woman lays out for
herself is exceedingly simple. She will coquette and dance and dream her
pleasant dream until Prince Charming, who is to awaken her to a new life,
comes and kisses away the dew of girlhood and leads his bride out into
the work-a-day world. The simple surroundings and ambitions of her youth
will make it easy for this wife to follow the man of her choice, if
necessary, to the remote village where he is directing a factory or to
the mining camp where the foundations of a fortune lie. Life is full of
delicious possibilities for her. Men who are forced to make their way in
youth often turn out to be those who make “history” later, and a bride
who has not become prematurely _blasée_ to all the luxuries or pleasures
of existence will know the greatest happiness that can come into a
woman’s life, that of rising at her husband’s side, step by step,
enjoying his triumphs as she shared his poverty.
CHAPTER 25—La Comédie Française à Orange
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