Because it has increased the culture of woman and her feeling of
personal responsibility, the woman movement has had its influence, both
directly and indirectly, upon the postponement of the legal and
customary marriage age. Since young girls have exercised their brains as
much as the boys have, they are no longer so far in advance of the boys
in physical development. But when modern girls finish their studies they
are physically as well as psychically more universally developed than
their grandmothers were. They know much more of the difficulties and
realities of life, not least of the sexual life. And this knowledge has
instilled in them a reluctance to undertake too early the serious and
difficult task of motherhood. They have greater need of truth and
culture, and less tendency to erotic visionary dreaming than girls of
their age in the middle of the previous century; their desire for work
and their social feeling fix goals, and they work with all their might
to attain them. And because, as already explained, both sexes have for
each other a more many-sided attraction than the merely erotic, young
people are more careful, more choice, in their erotic decisions. The
finest young girls of to-day are penetrated by the Nietzschean idea,
that marriage is the combined will of two people to create a new being
greater than themselves. But their joy does _not_ consist in the fact
“that the man wills”; they are themselves “will,” and above all they
have the will to choose the right father for their children, not only
for their own sake but for the sake of the children.
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