There are now, it is true, many women with so few claims that they think
they have fulfilled the fourfold task. In reality, they have fulfilled
all their duties imperfectly, or eliminated one task for a time in order
to be able to accomplish the others. _No woman has ever been at the same
time all_ that a wife can be to her husband, a mother to her children, a
housewife to her house, a working woman to her work. In the last
capacity the difficulty of the married woman is still further increased
by the present competition, as also by the fact that the better a person
works the more work falls to her, so that an exact and reasonable
division of time between work and home is often rendered quite
impossible.
In addition to all these difficulties arising through actualities, there
are finally also those evoked by the “spirit of the time.” A wife has,
for example, decided to give up a vocation which she saw was not
compatible with her home. But she stills finds no rest. She is harassed
by the demand of the “spirit of the time” that a married woman should be
able to take care of the house as well as to accomplish outside personal
work. The husband, also influenced by the “spirit of the time,” thinks
the same or feels painfully the fact that his wife, for love of him, has
sacrificed the exercise of a talent, in which he perhaps has felt a
personal interest; the longing for the vocation awakens in her, and she
resumes her work, with the result that, if she has energetically
resisted the lassitude that comes with beginning motherhood, she and the
child must suffer later. Or she lives in a permanent state of
over-exertion which finally culminates in nervous conditions under which
the whole family must share her suffering. Had she been able to follow
in peace her instinct to strike deep root in the home soil and to
enlarge and enrich her being by the annual growth of ring after ring of
her production of love, then the essential values would have been
increased for all. Now, she is led astray by a biased opinion of the
time, which owes its effectiveness to the single fact that the
opinionated resolutely turn their back upon all facts.
Thanks to these ideas of the time propagated by certain feminists, we
see increasing numbers of women who perform their “social duty” as the
telegraph poles perform their function; while such duty could have been
fulfilled as the tree grows in a garden: blooming, fruit-bearing,
joyful, joy-bringing.
CHAPTER VII
THE INFLUENCE OF THE WOMAN MOVEMENT UPON MOTHERHOOD
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