Only when all this is realised can one conceive what the feelings of
these new men must be when they meet those new women “who are no longer
willing to be slaves of the instinct for the propagation of the race;”
who see in motherhood “a loss of time from their work;” “an attack upon
their beauty;” an obstacle to the refined conduct of life;—a conduct of
life certain to debase woman’s worth as a child-bearing being, but to
elevate her to that exquisite, perfect product of culture, a “woman of
the world;” an obstacle also for woman as creator of other objective
cultural values. If a man with a father’s desires finds himself united
with such a woman, he finds himself in marriage quite as much a
prostitute as innumerable wives have felt themselves to be when they
were mere tools of a man’s desire. On the contrary the desire for the
elevation of mankind on the part of the new woman and the new man, is
evinced in the idea that not the quantity but the quality of the
children they give to humanity is most significant; that a land of fewer
but more perfect men is a higher culture ideal than the principle still
always maintained from the point of view of national competition, that
the inhabitants of a country must only be numerous however inferior they
may be.
To this wholly new evolutionary conception of life the amaternal women
oppose the following train of thought which greatly influences the
feeling and desire of women to-day[9]:
Culture now sets new duties for woman, more significant than exclusively
natural ones. The more the individual life increases in value, the more
the interest for the mere functions of sex declines, and with it also
the value of woman _as woman_ for a society where, because of
motherhood, she has become a being of secondary rank. It evinces lack of
ideality if one censures this tendency of the modern woman to renounce
maternity for the sake of more spiritual interests. While the mother
concentrates herself upon her own child only, the woman who renounces
motherhood can extend her being to embrace children as children in
general. As a mother, woman is only a being of nature. But the
personality, with its multiplicity of feelings and endeavours, demands
an independent activity as well as maternity.
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