To put her entire personality into the education of her children is a
twofold error. First and foremost, most mothers are _bad_ educators and
serve their children better if they entrust them to a born teacher; in
the second place, _gifted_ children educate themselves best and should
be spared all educational arts. The mediocre child, who is more
susceptible to education, has ordinarily also only mediocre parents, who
likewise benefit the children most if they put them in the care of
excellent teachers. Children who are _below_ mediocrity can also be best
educated by specialists. So there remains for the mother, after the
first years’ care and training, no especial task as educator, at least
none in which she can really put her personality. To talk to a mother
about the possibilities of a richer office of mother, as educator of her
children, she calls lulling her into an illusion under which she must
labour only to suffer. A woman who can exercise her personality in
another way should not therefore put it into the education of her
children.
The amaternal advocates deny that motherliness is the criterion of
womanliness; they find this criterion in the form, the external being of
woman, in her manner and physical appearance—in a word, in the _outer_
expression of the inner disposition, which they deny as typical of
womanliness! “Womanliness” is thus reduced to an “æsthetic principle,”
while woman’s spiritual attributes are considered as “universally
human”; and the right is granted to the feminine sex to emancipate
herself from the result of the heresy that _motherliness_ should be the
ethical norm for the “being” or “essence” of womanhood. The suitability
of woman’s _psychic_ constitution for her work as mother is not
acknowledged as proof that motherliness is the distinguishing
characteristic of womanliness. For this constitution is less conspicuous
in the higher stages of differentiation. Its suitability was then a
phenomenon of adaptation and changed with the conditions of life. Thus
this constitution cannot be cited as a reason for limiting woman’s
personal exercise of her powers. Motherliness is no social instinct. How
can motherliness, which we have in common with beasts and savages, be
considered as higher than, for example, justice, truth, and other
gradually won spiritual values, which woman can promote by her personal
activity? The higher the forms of life woman attains, the less will her
personality be determined by motherliness. Why then should women bring
to the domestic life the sacrifice of their personality, while no one
demands this of men? Why shall not woman, just as man, satisfy her
demands as a sex being in marriage and, as for the rest, follow her
profession, attend to her spiritual development, her social tasks? Why
condemn woman to remain a half-being—that is, with unexercised
brain—only because certain of her instincts attract her to man, while he
is not constrained to suppress his personality because he in like manner
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