The fundamental error of the amaternal solution of the problem is that
it characterises motherliness as a _non-social_ instinct, but, on the
other hand, defines the “personal” activity of woman as an expression of
the social instinct. _For all social instincts have been developed by
culture out of primitive instincts._ All cultural development lies
between the sex impulse of the Australian negress and the erotic
sentiment of Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s sonnets. And when the
amaternals assert that motherliness, which “we have in common with
beasts and savages,” cannot be an expression of the personality, their
argument has the same validity as that which would deny to the Sistine
Chapel the quality of an expression of personality because beasts and
savages also exhibit the decorative instinct.
The development of the mother instinct into motherliness is one of the
greatest achievements in the progress of culture, a development by which
the maternal functions have continually become more complex and
differentiated. Already in the case of the higher animals maternity
involves much more than the mere act of giving birth; an animal not only
faces death for her young, she gives them also a training which often
indicates power of judgment. A cat, for instance, which sought in vain
to prevent her kitten from entering the water and which finally threw
the kitten in and then pulled it out, thus obtaining the desired result
of her pedagogy, had not, as have so many modern mothers, read Spencer,
but could, nevertheless, put many of these mothers to shame. Even the
initial maternal functions, nursing and physical care, involve a culture
of the spiritual life of the mother, not only through an increase in
tenderness, but also in observation, discrimination, judgment,
self-control; a woman’s character often develops more in a month during
which she is occupied with the care of children, than in years of
professional work. Mother love and the reciprocal love which it awakens
in the child, not only exercise the first deep influence upon the
individual’s life of feeling, but this love is _the first form of the
law of mutual help—it is the root of altruism, the cotyledon_ of a now
widely ramified tree of “social instincts.”
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