But in spite of their aridity and inflexibility of principle how much
more human are even these feminists than the “ill-natured” aunts of
earlier times who became ill-natured exactly because their temperament
was of the kind mentioned above, but who could find no sphere of
operation for their passionate longing for activity. One or another was
perhaps burning with ambition. For there are women as well as men who
can live only as pagan gods, in the blaze and perfume of sacrificial
fires. In their youth these ambitious natures could be satisfied by
triumphs in social life. But later the passion became a fire in a powder
cask and occasioned incessant explosions. Now it is the electric motive
power for an activity of general utility. The “aunts” of the earlier
time who felt themselves always overlooked and injured are most easily
recognised again in the literary and artistic field to which daily bread
or ambition now urges many women, who endeavour to compensate by
energetic work for the talent which nature denied them. Since these
women are ordinarily not people of understanding but of feeling, they
must in a double sense be dissatisfied with a life which in addition is,
in most cases, still filled with economic cares and the humiliations
arising therefrom. And yet in spite of all, how much richer is their
life to-day than it would have been fifty years ago when they would have
been obliged to sit and draw their needles through interminable pieces
of handwork, after ugly patterns and for unnecessary uses, or to compose
sentimental birthday verses for persons whom they abominated.
Yet there are always those women natures who, in the past, had the
qualifications for a real “dear aunt,” who gently calmed the conflicts
and filled the gaps in the home of which they had become members. The
most tender and sensitive of these modern women, who, rain or shine,
year in year out, hasten to and from a work indifferent to them at
heart, not infrequently breathe a sigh of longing for those times when,
as “aunts,” they could have received and imparted warmth in a home. But
then again there come moments when they know how to value the
independence which puts them in a position to give help where otherwise
there would be none; when for example they can send a nephew to college,
or a friend to a sanatarium, or provide their mother with a nurse, which
they themselves can not be.
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