daughters worked year in year out without wages, in case they did not
receive meagrely doled out pin-money which only through great ingenuity
sufficed for their toilette. All year long there were christenings and
birthday celebrations; in summer games were played, where it was
possible riding parties arranged, in winter sleighing parties were
organised. Other physical exercise was considered superfluous. The young
girls were averse to going to a neighbouring estate if it lay a mile
away; and during the week to take a long walk for pleasure or sit down
with a book, which had been borrowed, would be considered simply as
idling away one’s time. In summer a cold bath was permissible—a warm
bath was used only in cases of sickness—but swimming was considered so
unwomanly, that whoever had learned it must keep it secret. Rowing,
tobogganing and skating were, even if permitted in the country, yet half
in discredit as “masculine.”
When grandfather related an heroic deed of some ancestress whose proud
countenance shone out among the family portraits, then the daughter of
such a family must have asked herself why this deed was lauded while
everything “manly” was forbidden her.
The days and years went by at the embroidery frame or netting needles,
amid continuous chatter about the family and neighbours, amid eternal
friction and in disputing back and forth over mere trifles. The confined
nervous force sought an outlet, and in an existence where each
one—according to the first paragraph of family rights—interfered in the
greatest as in the smallest concerns of all the others, there was always
plenty of material about which to become irritated and excited.
In the country, life was, however, fuller and fresher than in the city
where the young girl had less to do and never dared go out alone; yes,
where a walk was considered so superfluous, that the mother of the great
Swedish feminist Fredrika Bremer advised her daughters to jump up and
down behind a chair when they insisted that they needed exercise!
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