In such a circle of comrades, devotion and capacity for sacrifice are
past belief, especially in the nation where “the girls wear short hair
and the young men long hair,” as a wag characterised the young Russians
studying abroad. That a couple of Russian girls, for a whole winter,
possessed together but a single pair of shoes and so could never go out
at the same time, is one of the innumerable small and great expressions
of the feeling of solidarity among the poorest students of the
university.
When the comrade life assumed the form exclusively of coffee-house
visits, then the women had to revolt against it. But they often, alas,
allowed themselves to be carried with the stream. Because the
coffee-house life at first really gave a certain polish to the
intelligence, it could for a short time have its justification. But when
a blade is worn out, the artist of life should cease grinding; if on the
contrary he allows the grindstone to go on continually, then at last he
has only the haft in his hand. Formerly, it was only the young men but
now even the girls wear out thus their weapons or tools before they ever
use them seriously.
* * * * *
The darkest side of coëducational life has been that women could
demonstrate their equal capability with men in no other way than by the
same courses and examinations as those of the men. The eagerness of
women to prove their like proficiency with men in study and in sport has
often had disastrous physical results. These are continually becoming
more infrequent, thanks to the decreasing prudery in regard to the
sexual functions and to the increasing hygienic conscience. The
intellectual results, however, continue to exist and are disastrous
alike for both sexes; but because of the ambition and conscientiousness
of girls, perhaps still more disastrous for them. The examinations which
they pass are often dearly bought. This was not noticed in the
beginning, when a woman doctor was still looked at with wonder as a
noteworthy product of culture, and regarded herself also with wonder.
Truly she had sacrificed to grinding and cramming for examinations a
multitude of youthful joys, but she had, as was thought, won in this way
much greater values. This, however, is not always really the case.
Ethically, the conscientious girl is certainly above the boy who, not
infrequently in the unconscious instinct of self-preservation, idles
away his time. But the mental strength of the latter may frequently be
better preserved in any determined direction. Girls, conscientious and
zealous in their work, have filled their heads full of lessons to which
the coming examination and not their own choice has urged them. What is
thus crammed in is not assimilated and consequently has not promoted
spiritual or mental growth. But it has taken up room and has thereby
impaired the intellectual freedom of motion and compelled the natural
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