The step-mother of Elizabeth Tilley bore a Dutch name, Bridget Van De Veldt.[82] Elizabeth was ten or twelve years younger than her husband, at least, for he was twenty-eight years old in 1620. They were married, probably, by 1623-4, for the second child, John, was born in 1626. It is not known how long Howland had been with the Pilgrims at Leyden; he may have come there with Cushman in 1620 or, possibly, he joined the company at Southampton. His ancestry is still in some doubt in spite of the efforts to trace it to one John Howland, “gentleman and citizen and salter” of London.[83] Probably the outfit necessary for the voyage was furnished to him by Carver, and the debt was to be paid in some service, clerical or other; in no other sense was he a “servant.” He signed the compact of _The Mayflower_ and was one of the “ten principal men” chosen to select a site for the colony. For many years he was prominent in civic affairs of the state and church. He was among the liberals towards Quakers as were his brothers who came later to Marshfield,—Arthur and Henry. At Rocky Neck, near the Jones River in Kingston, as it is now called, the Howland household was prosperous, with nine children to keep Elizabeth Tilley’s hands occupied. She lived until past eighty years, and died at the home of her daughter, Lydia Howland Brown, in Swanzey, in 1687. Among the articles mentioned in her will are many books of religious type. Her husband’s estate as inventoried was not large, but mentioned such useful articles as silk neckcloths, four dozen buttons and many skeins of silk.[84] Constance or Constanta Hopkins was probably about the same age as Elizabeth Tilley, for she was married before 1627 to Nicholas Snow, who came in _The Ann_. They had twelve children, and among the names one recognizes such familiar patronymics of the two families as Mark, Stephen, Ruth and Elizabeth. Family tradition has ascribed beauty and patience to this maiden who, doubtless, served well both in her father’s large family and in the community. Her step-sister, Damaris, married Jacob Cooke, son of the Pilgrim, Francis Cooke. ----- Footnote 35: Now in Pilgrim Hall, Plymouth. Footnote 36: For discussion of the ancestry of Standish, see “Some Recent Investigations of the Ancestry of Capt. Myles Standish,” by Thomas Cruddas Porteus of Coppell, Lancashire; N. E. Gen. Hist. Register, 68; 339-370; also in edition, Boston, 1914. Footnote 37: Massachusetts Historical Society Proceedings, iv, 322. Footnote 38: England and Holland of the Pilgrims, Dexter. Footnote 39: The Mayflower Descendant, v. 256. Footnote 40: History of the Allerton Family; W. S. Allerton, N. Y., 1888. Footnote 41: New England Memorial; Morton. Footnote 42: The Colonial, I, 46; also Gen. Hist. Reg., 67; 382, note. Footnote 43: Life of Pilgrim Alden; Augustus E. Alden; Boston, 1902. Footnote 44: Bradford’s History of Plymouth Plantation; Appendix. Footnote 45: