If my _Watch_ did not inform you ‘tis now time to write, I believe,
_Damon_, your Heart wou’d, and tell you also that I should take it
kindly, if you would employ a whole Hour that way; and that you should
never lose an Occasion of writing to me, since you are assured of the
Welcome I give your Letters. Perhaps you will say, an Hour is too
much, and that ‘tis not the mode to write long Letters. I grant you,
_Damon_, when we write those indifferent ones of Gallantry in course,
or necessary Compliment; the handsome comprizing of which in the fewest
Words, renders ‘em the most agreeable: But in Love we have a thousand
foolish things to say, that of themselves bear no great Sound, but have
a mighty Sense in Love; for there is a peculiar Eloquence natural alone
to a Lover, and to be understood by no other Creature: To those, Words
have a thousand Graces and Sweetnesses; which, to the Unconcerned,
appear Meanness, and easy Sense, at the best. But, _Damon_, you and I
are none of those ill Judges of the Beauties of Love; we can penetrate
beyond the Vulgar, and perceive the fine Soul in every Line, thro’ all
the humble Dress of Phrase; when possibly they who think they discern
it best in florid Language, do not see it at all. _Love_ was not born
or bred in Courts, but Cottages; and, nurs’d in Groves and Shades,
smiles on the Plains, and wantons in the Streams; all unador’d and
harmless. Therefore, _Damon_, do not consult your Wit in this Affair,
but _Love_ alone; speak all that he and Nature taught you, and let the
fine Things you learn in Schools alone: Make use of those Flowers you
have gather’d there, when you converst with States-men and the Gown.
Let _Iris_ possess your Heart in all its simple Innocence, that’s the
best Eloquence to her that loves: and that is my Instruction to a Lover
that would succeed in his Amours; for I have a Heart very difficult to
please, and this is the nearest way to it.
Advice to Lovers.
Lovers, _if you wou’d gain a Heart,_
_Of_ Damon _learn to win the Prize;_
_He’ll shew you all its tend’rest part,_
_And where its greatest Danger lies;_
_The Magazine of its Disdain,_
_Where Honour, feebly guarded, does remain._
_If present, do but little say;_
_Enough the silent Lover speaks:_
_But wait, and sigh, and gaze all day;_
_Such Rhet’rick more than Language takes._
_For Words the dullest way do move;_
_And utter’d more to shew your Wit than Love._
_Let your Eyes tell her of your Heart;_
_Its Story is, for Words, too delicate._
_Souls thus exchange, and thus impart,_
_And all their Secrets can relate._
_A Tear, a broken Sigh, she’ll understand;_
_Or the soft trembling Pressings of the Hand._
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