’.is also in these Conversations, that those indiscreetly civil Persons often are, who think to oblige a good Man, by letting him know he is belov’d by some one or other; and making him understand how many good Qualities he is Master of, to render him agreeable to the Fair Sex, if he would but advance where Love and good Fortune call; and that a too constant Lover loses a great part of his Time, which might be manag’d to more advantage, since Youth hath so short a Race to run. This, and a thousand the like indecent Complaisances, give him a Vanity that suits not with that Discretion, which has hitherto acquir’d him so good a Reputation. I would not have you, _Damon_, act on these occasions, as many of the easy Sparks have done before you, who receive such Weakness and Flattery for Truth; and passing it off with a Smile, suffer ‘em to advance in Folly, till they have gain’d a Credit with ‘em, and they believe all they hear; telling ‘em they do so, by consenting Gestures, Silence, or open Approbation. For my part, I should not condemn a Lover that should answer such a sort of civil Brokers for Love, somewhat briskly; and by giving ‘em to understand they are already engag’d, or directing ‘em to Fools, that will possibly hearken to ‘em, and credit such Stuff, shame ‘em out of a Folly so infamous and disingenuous. In such a Case only I am willing you should own your Passion; not that you need tell the Object which has charm’d you: And you may say, you are already a Lover, without saying you are belov’d. For so long as you appear to have a Heart unengag’d, you are expos’d to all the little Arts and and Addresses of this sort of obliging Procurers of Love, and give way to the hope they have of making you their Proselyte. For your own Reputation then, and my Ease and Honour, shun such Conversations; for they are neither creditable to you, nor pleasing to me: And believe me, _Damon_, a true Lover has no Curiosity, but what concerns his Mistress. FIVE o’.LOCK. _Dangerous Visits._