I am indebted to a clergyman for the record of a somewhat similar
experience. 'A close friendship,' he writes, 'once existed between myself
and a lady, somewhat older, and of a religious temperament. We often
discussed the life beyond the grave, and agreed that if she died first,
and this appeared more than probable, as she was the victim of a mortal
disease, she would appear to me. I may add that she was of a highly-strung
and nervous nature, and though purely English had many of the psychic
characteristics of the Celt. After her death, I looked for some appearance
or manifestation, and about three days after dreamed that she had come
back to me, and was discussing with me a matter which I much wished to
speak about before her death, but was unable to, owing to her weakness and
the presence of strangers. In the dream it was perfectly clear to me that
she was a dead woman back from another sphere of existence. For some weeks
after this I had similar experiences. They were never dreams of the old
life and friendship before death, but always reappearances from the other
world. Of course it may be said of this experience of mine, that it was
merely the result of expectation. But I have found that the things most on
my mind are rarely the subject of my dreams. Moreover, these dreams formed
a series, lasting for weeks, and all of the same character, though the
conversations differed.'
When a dreamer awakes in an emotional state which corresponds to a dream
he has just experienced, it is usually a safe assumption that the dream
was the result, and not the cause, of the emotional state. That is by
no means always the case, however, and in the type of dream we are here
concerned with it is rarely the case. Even though it may be quite true
that an emotional state evoked the dream, it is equally true that in
its turn the dream itself may arouse an emotional state. The dream of
encountering a celestial visitant, especially if the visitant is a beloved
friend, cannot fail to produce an especial effect of this kind. It is
noteworthy that the emotional influence may be present even when the fact
of dreaming has not been recalled. Thus a lady who, on waking in the
morning could not remember having dreamed, realised during the day that
she was feeling as she was accustomed to feel after dreaming of a beloved
friend, and was ultimately able to recall fragments of the dream.[187] A
man of so great an intellect as Goethe has borne witness to the consoling
influence of dreams. 'I have had times in my life,' he said, in old age,
to Eckermann, 'when I have fallen asleep in tears, but in my dreams the
loveliest figures come to give me comfort and happiness, and I awake next
morning once more fresh and cheerful.'[188]
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