Christian literature for children; Women -- Social and moral questions; Young women -- Conduct of life
How long shall it be charged on this sex that they often yield, without
an attempt at self-control, to their supposed natural volatility? If man
be constitutionally grave, and life be with him all a serious affair,
then should woman supply this want by careful self-culture. I would not
frown on the innocent gratifications of the tongue; but I would entreat
this sex, instead of seeking their pleasure in discussing the concerns
of their neighbors, to pause, consider, and resolve that they will set
their feet in a new path. Do not reveal the secrets of a family, because
accidentally made acquainted with them, or privileged with their
intimacy. Disdain, as unworthy your nature and your sex, the practice of
prying into the domestic affairs of others. Cultivate a taste for
reading, and talk of books and principles, not persons. And never forget
that "for every idle word you must give account" hereafter. Be so filled
with good sense and knowledge, that of you it may be said, mark
"that fund of truth and sense,
Which though her modesty would shroud,
Breaks like the sun behind the cloud."
Good Taste is needful in society. There are those, who so appear, as
"thoughtless of gracefulness, to be yet grace itself." This is the
native endowment of some; but all may approximate toward it. Propriety
is a rich ornament of female speech. Modesty is a cardinal point in good
taste. But let it be sincere. In the early ages of Rome, the women, in
general, wore veils in public. Latterly they were worn by certain of the
beautiful, but disreputable of that sex, partially to shade the face,
and thus add to their unholy fascinations. Beware of a tincture of this
spirit. Let your deportment be always so pure and self-respectful, that
"guilt shall seem a thing impossible in you." Consummate the marriage
intended, under Providence, between Taste and Virtue.
The last topic I name in this connection is Moral Courage. There is a
tyranny of circumstances which you may sometimes fail of successfully
resisting. But never may you desist from the attempt to do this. Strive
to maintain, mildly, yet firmly, every particle of the ground of right
and duty.
Perhaps no one source of temptation will so try your moral energies, in
this respect, as that of amusements and recreations. God intended that
you should sometimes rest from toil, and find relaxations to repair your
exhausted spirits. Pursued for this purpose, they will ever prove more
than innocent; they will be useful, and acceptable before Heaven.
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