THE YOUNG MAN'S GUIDE. CHAPTER I. On the Formation of Character. SECTION I. _Importance of aiming high, in the formation of character._ To those who have carefully examined the introduction and table of contents, I am now prepared to give the following general direction; _Fix upon a high standard of character._ To be _thought_ well of, is not sufficient. The point you are to aim at, is, the greatest possible degree of usefulness. Some may think there is danger of setting _too high_ a standard of action. I have heard teachers contend that a child will learn to write much faster by having an _inferior copy_, than by imitating one which is comparatively perfect; 'because,' say they, 'a pupil is liable to be discouraged if you give him a _perfect_ copy; but if it is only a little in advance of his own, he will take courage from the belief that he shall soon be able to equal it.' I am fully convinced, however, that this is not so. The _more_ perfect the copy you place before the child, provided it be _written_, and not _engraved_, the better. For it must always be _possible_ in the nature of things, for the child to imitate it; and what is not absolutely impossible, every child may reasonably be expected to aspire after, on the principle, that whatever man _has done_, man _may_ do. So in human conduct, generally; whatever is possible should be aimed at. Did my limits permit, I might show that it is a part of the divine economy to place before his rational creatures a perfect standard of action, and to make it their duty to come up to it. He who only aims at _little_, will _accomplish_ but little. _Expect_ great things, and _attempt_ great things. A neglect of this rule produces more of the difference in the character, conduct, and success of men, than is commonly supposed. Some start in life without any leading object at all; some with a low one; and some aim high:--and just in proportion to the elevation at which they aim, will be their progress and success. It is an old proverb that he who aims at the sun, will not reach it, to be sure, but his arrow will fly higher than if he aims at an object on a level with himself. Exactly so is it, in the formation of character, except in one point. To reach the sun with a arrow is an impossibility, but a youth may aim high without attempting impossibilities. Let me repeat the assurance that, as a general rule, _you may be whatever you will resolve to be_. Determine that you will be useful in the world, and you _shall_ be. Young men seem to me utterly unconscious of what they are capable of being and doing. Their efforts are often few and feeble, because they are not awake to a full conviction that any thing great or distinguished is in their power.