Don't expose yourself to the crowds where the Verbomaniacs gather. The
disease is contagious; it's easy to acquire and hard to retire.
These are ideas put in type to convey a truth for the benefit of all who
read these lines, and it is some truth, too.
18.
Love builds homes, gold builds houses. The home has a mongrel dog which
is called Prince, and all the family love it. The house had a pedigreed
bull pup that is kept in the barn.
[Sidenote: House and Home.]
There is all the difference between the family which has a home and the
family which has a house. In houses we find broken hearts, worry,
nervous prostration, because there is idleness, artificiality and
aimlessness. In homes we find warm hearts, happiness and love, because
those in the home have natural, helpful occupation.
In the house is cold reserve; the occupants read when compelled to stay
indoors; they grow crabbed and cross and get into a state of habitual
dumbness and selfishness.
In the home there is unselfishness, thoughtfulness, and love expressed.
Meal time is joy time; it's the get-together period of smiling faces.
In the house the breakfast table is merely a lunch station in the
hurried trip from the bedroom to the office.
The sensitive wife of the house gets stinging remarks that abide with
her after the lord and master of the house has departed.
[Sidenote: What Makes Home.]
In the home the family gets up plenty early enough. Songs and jokes,
kisses and love pats are found; the family is on time, and there is
happiness all around. Homes are sweet, because love is present. Houses
built by gold are just hotels.
I've noticed the difference when a friend invites me to come to his home
or to his house; the word he uses, home or house, indicates to me what I
will find when I go there.
In the house I meet a maid or butler at the door. I see conventional
furniture, conventional rooms. I am shown into a conventional waiting
room, and I wait conventionally for the hostess to come forward with a
stiff backbone, a forced smile, and a languid handshake.
When I go to a home built with love, I find a tidy dressed wife at the
door, rosy children, and I get a warm, old-fashioned hand clasp, and a
beaming, smiling face that spells welcome.
And the dinner--that, too, tells the difference between the
"depend-on-the-cook" establishment and the "wife-who-is-the-boss" home.
At the house is formality and frigidity; at the home is ease and
enjoyment. The children of the home make breaks and we love them for it;
it's natural instinct and frankness.
In the house is worry; in the home is happiness.
Verily, there's a difference in the atmosphere of the house built with
gold and the home built with love; one is worthless existence, the other
worth-while living.
19.
[Sidenote: Seven Simple Health Suggestions.]
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account