Many have the habit of keeping their minds on their weaknesses or their
shortcomings. If they read of some one doing a great thing or making a
worth-while accomplishment, they say: "I never could do such a thing."
These persons are always saying, "I never have luck. I can't do this. I
can't do that."
Always knocking, always thinking "can't" instead of "can" makes for
fear, irresoluteness, uncertainty and weakness of character.
To say, "I can't, I haven't the ability, I am unlucky" makes you weak
and knocks out all chance for doing things.
Nothing comes out of the brain that wasn't burned in by thought. If you
disparage yourself, belittle your capacity, or drown your good impulses
with doubt and self-accusation, you are putting away a lot of bad
thought in your brain, and no wonder you will lack in initiative,
ambition, confidence and courage.
To those who claim to be unlucky, I want to say you are not
unlucky--you simply lack pluck.
You start at undertakings with a handicap of fear. You have made up your
mind that you can't accomplish. You are half beaten before the game
starts. In place of the will to achieve, you approach your task in fear
and trepidation. In place of confidence and courage and high
aspirations, you set out on your journey with the millstone of doubt and
irresolution around your neck.
[Sidenote: Confidence and Success.]
There is but one way to succeed. That is to cast fear and
self-accusation aside, and throw your full weight into the struggle with
a song on your lips and confidence in your heart. "Victory" should be
your battlecry and "Confidence" should be emblazoned on your shield.
Many a man has been whipped in a fight, defeated in a contest, or beaten
at an undertaking, but he didn't show it or let the other fellow know
it. He just kept on with a brave front, and finally the other fellow
quit, mistaking grim determination, pluck and perseverance for strength
and victory.
Ethan Allen with his handful of men were asked to surrender by the
British general with his superior force. By all the rights and rules of
war, Ethan was licked, but he didn't give in. He replied: "Surrender
h--ll; I've just commenced to fight." If Ethan had accused himself and
said, "I can't whip that big bunch; there's no hope," he would have been
whipped to a finish.
Don't show the enemy or the world your weakness. Don't admit anything
impossible that is capable of accomplishment.
It's the "I can" man who wins. No man ever won a fight if he started out
by saying, "I can't whip him, he is too much for me; I am no match for
him, but I'll try."
No person ever made success in business if he started in with
uncertainty, lack of confidence and unbelief in his ability. Confidence
has ever been half the battle.
[Sidenote: The World's Judgment.]
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