The army is a great maker and developer of men. Boys who were headed for
perdition have found in the army a new sense of honor and respect. The
rigorous training, the idea of duty, the heroic traditions of the
service--all these are renewers and rekindlers of manhood. Many a lad
who has wasted his health, wealth and substance on the primrose path,
has "come back" gloriously in the service of the flag.
Look at the average soldier or sailor you meet. His skin is tanned by
sun and wind to a deep brown. His eyes are crystal clear. There is youth
and strength in his tread. There he stands, clean as a whistle. No fat,
no flabbiness--just solid sinew and ruddy health. He is a living
exponent of what military training can do for every boy in the country.
Hard work, strength-building exercises, sufficient sleep, regular
hours, simple, wholesome food, systematic training--these are the things
the army and navy offers. And these are the things that make real men.
But no training that school or church or army can give him relieves you,
Dad, of your obligation to the boy. In the last analysis, it is _your_
influence that will either make him or break him, for it is to you that
he looks for guidance and comradeship in his most impressionable years.
If you are his chum, if sister shares his amusements with him, if the
family work and live on the "all for one and one for all" basis, if the
boy is kept busy and interested, he can be easily trained.
[Sidenote: Be Worth Copying.]
Neglect him and he will neglect you. Love him and he will love you. Meet
him half way, he's impressionable. Show him a kindness, he will respond.
Show him a good example, he will follow. You have to be with him, or
know where he is every minute.
During his period of adolescence, say from twelve or thirteen years to
sixteen or seventeen, that boy is a mass of plaster of paris, easily
shaped while plastic, but once set, all but impossible to recast.
That's the time, Dad, you must be on YOUR job with your boy.
Your counsel, example, love, interest and teaching will MAKE the boy.
Think of these things, Dad, and think hard, and think hard NOW.
To-morrow may be too late.
29.
[Sidenote: Our Daughters.]
Our daughters--how much we love them! How happy we are to have their
fresh, smiling faces about us! Their girlish laughter lightens our home
hours and creates an atmosphere of joy. What would we not give if we
could but insure their happiness! Our fondest and most cherished hopes
are bound up in them as they grow up under our eyes and blossom into
womanhood.
Girl, what a wonderful creature you can be. What a glorious success you
can make of your life if you get the right start, find the right hands
to help you, the right hearts to love you, and the right eyes to watch
you, the right thoughts to make you, and the right ideals to guide you.
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