You who work indoors, with little physical exercise, will find wonderful
benefits if you will cut down the fuel.
Much of the physical trouble comes from filling up the boiler too much.
Cut down the food and you will feel better.
38.
Anger and revenge are great pull-backs to health.
Anger makes the blood rush to the head, weakens the body, and distorts
the vision.
When a woman gets angry, she quarrels with her lover, her husband or her
children. Any one of these things is a calamity.
When a man gets angry, he is a wild man. His eyes glitter, his mouth is
cruel, his fists clinch, his body trembles, his blood veins strain, and
he does more harm to his system in five minutes of anger than nature can
repair in a day.
[Sidenote: Anger and Poise.]
Anger makes weak stomachs, dizzy heads, poor judgment, lost friends,
despair and sickness, and if the habit becomes confirmed, will likely
lead to apoplexy. When two men have differences, watch the cool man
finish victor; the angry man always loses. Keep your head; let the other
fellow fret and fume.
He will tie himself up in a knot, and when the gong is rung, he will be
the loser.
Serenity is one of God's blessings. Fortunate is the man who can hold
his serenity.
When you get a letter that stirs you to anger, don't answer that letter
for forty-eight hours, then write a moderately vitriolic letter--and
then tear it up.
[Sidenote: The Futility of Revenge.]
I know you are tempted and goaded, and your limit of endurance is
sometimes reached. But I know that revenge is sweet only in
anticipation. I know that revenge by anger and by the cruel "eye for an
eye" measure is never, never sweet.
I have been the victim of imposition, ingratitude and insincerity, and
advantage has been taken of me because I kept my poise and serenity.
I have been called easy, and soft, and friends have shown me where I was
imposed upon, but I was stooping to conquer. I kept my reserve, my
resistance, and my power ready until time, place, and preparedness let
me spring my coup, and then I cashed in beautifully in principal and
interest for those acts and hurts.
I have power now in my hands to make others suffer keenly and deeply for
wrongs they have done me. Yet I do not exercise that power to revenge.
I have been misjudged and misunderstood, because cowardly persons have
lied and villified me, and have accused me of motives and acts of which
I was innocent.
I am well hated now by one person in particular, who blames me for
things another is guilty of. A word from me would clear myself, but it
would bring gloom and despair to that person and would not make me any
more cognizant of my innocence.
[Sidenote: Time, the Arbiter.]
Time somehow will bring out the truth; the cowardly, guilty individual
who basks in the favor of the one who is angry at me will surely pay for
his wrong. This I know, and I am satisfied with the ultimate result.
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