Thirteen Years of a Busy Woman's LifeAlec-Tweedie, Mrs. (Ethel)
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Thirteen Years of a Busy Woman's Life
Alec-Tweedie, Mrs. (Ethel)
Alec-Tweedie, Mrs. (Ethel), -1940; Great Britain -- Intellectual life -- 20th century
He was hardly dead before a little book appeared in German, its title
being _Ibsen. With Unpublished Letters to a Friend_, by Georg Brandes.
The friend was the girl. There were twelve letters, including a set of
album verses and the dedication of a photograph. The romance came about
in this wise.
In the late summer of 1889 Ibsen and his family spent a holiday in the
Tyrolese watering-place Gossensass, where they made the acquaintance
of a young Viennese girl who was also staying there. She was eighteen
years of age, the poet sixty-one; but that wide disparity did not
prevent a warm friendship springing up between them, which apparently
was cultivated more assiduously on her side than on his, and was
eventually brought to a close, as far as overt manifestations were
concerned at any rate, by his decision. On separating, the dramatist
gave her a copy of his photograph, on the back of which was written:
“To the May sun of a September life—in the Tyrol; 27-9-89.—HENRIK
IBSEN.”
By the following February Ibsen was already troubled in his mind over
the development which the friendship was taking. He wrote:
“Long, very long, have I let your last dear letter lie, read it
and read it again, without sending you an answer. Please accept my
most heartfelt thanks in a few words. And henceforward, till we
see one another personally, you will hear from me by letter little
and seldom. Believe me—it is better so. It is the only right thing
to do. I feel it a matter of conscience to put a stop to this
correspondence with you, or, at any rate, to restrict it.... You
will understand all this as I have meant it. And if we meet again
I will explain exactly. Till then and for ever you remain in my
thoughts. And that all the more if this troublesome letter-writing
causes no disturbance. A thousand greetings.
“Your
“HENRIK IBSEN.”
In spite of Ibsen’s entreaties his young friend continued to send him
letters, and a little present accompanied one of them at the close of
1890. He replied:
“I have safely received your dear letter. Also the bell with the
lovely picture. I thank you for them from my heart. My wife, too,
thinks the picture is very well painted. Soon I will send you my
new play. Receive it in friendship—but in silence.
“Your ever devoted
“HENRIK IBSEN.”
That was the end of the letter-writing. They never saw one another
again after the meeting in the Tyrol, and from then the Viennese girl
kept silence. Only once did she break it—on the poet’s seventieth
birthday, in 1898, when she sent him a congratulatory telegram. Three
days later she received from him a photograph, on the back of which was
written:
“The summer in Gossensass was the happiest, the most beautiful in
my life. Hardly dare to think of it. And yet must always—always.”
So Love came tapping at the window of the old gentleman who had
described Youth knocking at the door.
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