I often wonder as I look around the world whether any of us, even
we women, really want peace. Women should realize better than any
one else, that the spirit of peace has to begin in the relationship
between two individuals. They know that a child alone may be unhappy
because he is alone, but there will be no quarreling until another
child appears on the scene, and then the fur will fly, if each of them
desires the same thing at the same time.
Women have watched this for generations and must know, if peace is
going to come about in the world, the way to start is by getting a
better understanding between individuals. From this germ a better
understanding between groups of people will grow.
In spite of this knowledge, I am sure that women themselves are among
the worst offenders when it comes to petty quarrels. Mrs. J---- will
refuse to speak to Mrs. C---- because Mrs. C----’s dog came through
the hedge and mussed up Mrs. J----’s flowerbed. No one will deny that
occurrences of this kind are irritating in the extreme, but is it worth
a feud between two neighbors, perhaps old friends or even acquaintances
who must live next door to each other and see each other almost every
day?
At the moment we, as a nation, are looking across the Atlantic and the
Pacific, patting ourselves on the back and saying how fortunate we are
to be away from all their excitements. We feel a little self-righteous,
and forget that we ourselves have been engaged in a war on the average
of every forty years since our nation was founded. We even fought a
civil war, complicated by the alignment of other nations with one side
or the other, though no foreign soldiers actually came to fight on
either side.
The people who settled in New England came here for religious freedom,
but religious freedom to them meant freedom only for their kind of
religion. They were not going to be any more liberal to others who
differed with them in this new country, than others had been with them
in the countries from which they came. This attitude seems to be our
attitude in many situations today.
Very few people in any nation today are inclined to be really liberal
in allowing real freedom to other individuals. Like our forebears we
want freedom for ourselves, but not for those who differ from us.
To think and act as we please within the limits, of course, caused
by the necessity for respecting the equal rights which must belong
to our neighbors, would seem to be almost a platitudinous doctrine,
yet we would frequently like to overlook these limits and permit no
freedom to our neighbors. If this is our personal attitude, it is not
strange that our national attitude is similar. We are chiefly concerned
with the rights and privileges of our own people and we show little
consideration for the rights and privileges of others. In this we are
not very different from other nations both in the past and in the
present.
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