"I wish," he says, "I could give you even a tolerable account of
what I have done; but I don't know how it is, both my mind and
heart appear to have lain for some time completely fallow, and even
the usual crop of _wild oats_ has not been forthcoming. What is the
reason of this? I believe there is in every man's life (at least in
every man who has lived as if he knew how to live) one blank
interval, which takes place at that period when the gay desires of
youth are just gone off, and he has not yet made up his mind as to
the feelings or pursuits that succeed them--when the last blossom
has fallen away, and yet the fruit continues to look harsh and
unpromising--a kind of _interregnum_ which takes place upon the
demise of love, before ambition and worldliness have seated
themselves upon the vacant throne."
One can easily imagine a gentleman who writes in this strain making,
some few months later, a match with a penniless and beautiful girl of
sixteen, whose situation had so little to recommend it that he kept the
whole affair dark even from his parents. It would not have been so
likely a guess that he would make her the most affectionate of husbands,
or that she would turn out to be the most helpful of wives. There are
few things more significant in a man's history than his choice of a
consort, and stress must be laid on this marriage. In the first place,
it should be remarked that Moore, with an equipment for the business
which might have made any fortune-hunter envious, never showed the least
inclination to marry for money. Secondly, although himself among the
most brilliant of talkers, finding his chief enjoyment in such talk as
was heard, for instance, at Holland House, he married a girl who
probably had little education and certainly possessed only the
intelligence of the heart. He married, doubtless, for beauty; but
probably not without discerning that this girl of sixteen had qualities
of prudence, order, and courage which amply justified his choice. She
must have possessed also a great charm, for the most difficult to please
among Moore's friends were immediately subjugated. Rogers, who had a
sincere and lifelong affection for the young poet, took her from the
first into his good graces, and his letters all contain some pleasant
word of remembrance to Psyche, as he christened her. In a later day,
Psyche and her babies were the guests of that rigidly celibate old
bachelor, and did not lack invitation to return. Miss Godfrey, another
shrewd and loyal well-wisher, wrote six months after the marriage:--
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