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He smoked thoughtfully for a minute or two before replying. "Look here,
Betty," he said at last, "you're right in a way. I'm not half so patient
as you are, I'll admit. But I wonder if we don't all miss the mark when
it comes to disciplining children?--Wait--just a minute before you
answer. I've been thinking a whole lot about this business of home rule
since we--er--discussed it the other day, and I've come to the
conclusion that the only thing to do is to let universal law take its
course with them. They are human beings, my dear, and they've got to
come up against the law in its broader sense sooner or later. Let 'em
begin right now."
She was eyeing him pityingly. "And by that you mean----?"
"I mean," he went on, warming to his subject, "that you've got to teach
a child what it means to reap what he sows. If Richard wants to put his
finger on the stove and investigate the phenomenon of calorics, let him.
He won't do it twice."
"And if he wants to paddle in the aquarium of a cold winter day,
you'd----"
"Let him--of course," said Sam stoutly. "He'd feel uncomfortably damp
and chilly after a while."
"Yes; and have the croup or pneumonia that same night."
"You're hopelessly old-fashioned, Betty," he laughed; "you shouldn't
introduce the croup or pneumonia idea into the infant consciousness.
But seriously, my dear, I believe I'm right. If you don't teach the
children to recognise the relation between cause and effect now--so that
it becomes second nature to them, how are they going to understand the
subject when they're put up against it later? You'll find the mother
bird and the mother bear, and, in fact, all the animal creation
carefully instilling the idea of cause and effect into their offspring
from the very beginning; while human parents are as constantly
protecting their children from the effects of the causes which the
children ignorantly set in motion. In other words we persist in undoing
the work of old 'Mother Be-done-by-as-you-did.' It's a blunder, in my
opinion. But of course, I'm a mere man and my ideas are not entitled to
much consideration."
Elizabeth gazed at her husband with open admiration. "Of course they are
entitled to consideration," she said decidedly. "And I believe what you
have said--with reservations. Suppose Baby Dick, for example, should
lean out of the window too far--a second-story window, I mean--and I
should see him doing it and feel pretty certain he was going to pitch
out head first and cripple himself for life. Do you think I ought to
stand still and let the law of gravitation teach him not to do it a
second time?"
Sam Brewster laid down his pipe and gazed steadfastly at his wife. She
was looking extremely young and bewitchingly pretty as she leaned toward
him, her cheeks pink, her brown eyes glowing with earnestness in which
he thought he detected a spark of her old girlish mischief.
"'And still the wonder grew,'" he quoted solemnly, "'that one small head
could carry all she knew!'"
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