brought to the door by the best man, who takes the key out of the door,
if it have one, and gives it to the bridegroom, who retires, locking
the door on the inside; and the dancing is kept up till after daylight,
when the guests betake themselves to their carts and wagons and return
to their homes, often a day's journey distant. Then the great event of
the Boer's life is ended. After a while, it may be he takes his bride
home to his father's house. They share a room often with other members
of the family, and the girl takes her place as an elder daughter in
the household, and, especially if there be no grown daughter, makes
coffee, gives out the rations, and attends to the maids. After a while,
perhaps, when she has had her first or second child, and the young
couple are of an age to take care of themselves, they remove into
two small disconnected rooms of their own built on at the end of the
farm-house, or a little way off; and it is not uncommon, as sons and
daughters grow up, to have three or four of these small dwellings on
one farm; though some of the married children almost invariably remain
in the large house with the parents. Sometimes, after a few years have
passed, the young couple leave the parental home altogether, and become
part of the band of trekkers who are ceaselessly moving North in search
of new pastures. As the years go by the bride becomes the buxom matron
of twenty-five or twenty-six with half-a-dozen children, and she not
only has her own coffee table and chair and stove, but, as her eldest
daughter soon reaches an age at which she can make coffee, and attend
to the active duties of the household, the mother begins to sit sewing
permanently in her elbow-chair as her mother and grandmother did before
her, and the new generation repeats the story of the old.
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