Thoughts on the Education of Daughters: With Reflections on Female Conduct, in the More Important Duties of LifeWollstonecraft, Mary
Philosophy
Thoughts on the Education of Daughters: With Reflections on Female Conduct, in the More Important Duties of Life
Wollstonecraft, Mary
Women -- Conduct of life; Women -- Social and moral questions; Young women
Card-playing is now the constant amusement, I may say employment, of
young and old, in genteel life. After all the fatigue of the toilet,
blooming girls are set down to card-tables, and the most unpleasing
passions called forth. Avarice does not wait for grey hairs and
wrinkles, but marks a countenance where the loves and graces ought to
revel. The hours that should be spent in improving the mind, or in
innocent mirth, are thus thrown away; and if the stake is not
considerable enough to rouse the passions, lost in insipidity, and a
habit acquired which may lead to serious mischief. Not to talk of
gaming, many people play for more than they can well afford to lose, and
this sours their temper. Cards are the universal refuge to which the
idle and the ignorant resort, to pass life away, and to keep their
inactive souls awake, by the tumult of hope and fear.
“Unknown to them, when sensual pleasures cloy,
“To fill the languid pause with finer joy;
“Unknown those powers that raise the soul to flame,
“Catch every nerve, and vibrate through the frame.”
And, of course, this is their favourite amusement. Silent, stupid
attention appears necessary; and too frequently little arts are
practised which debase the character, and at best give it a trifling
turn. Certainly nothing can be more absurd than permitting girls to
acquire a fondness for cards. In youth the imagination is lively, and
novelty gives charms to every scene; pleasure almost obtrudes itself,
and the pliable mind and warm affections are easily wrought on. They
want not those resources, which even respectable and sensible persons
sometimes find necessary, when they see life, as it is unsatisfactory,
and cannot anticipate pleasures, which they know will fade when nearly
viewed. Youth is the season of activity, and should not be lost in
listlessness. Knowledge ought to be acquired, a laudable ambition
encouraged; and even the errors of passion may produce useful
experience, expand the faculties, and teach them to know their own
hearts. The most shining abilities, and the most amiable dispositions of
the mind, require culture, and a proper situation, not only to ripen and
improve them, but to guard them against the perversions of vice, and the
contagious influence of bad examples.
THE THEATRE.
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