Through These Eyes: The courageous struggle to find meaning in a life stressed with cancerIsaacson, Lauren Ann
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Through These Eyes: The courageous struggle to find meaning in a life stressed with cancer
Isaacson, Lauren Ann
Cancer -- Patients -- Biography; Isaacson, Lauren Ann, 1961-1986
"An individual who is not one with his inner core cannot hope to give
of himself fully, for his mind encompasses only his life, and not life
itself. "
VIEWS ON AWARENESS
The inevitable passage of time, varying levels of maturity, and our
life experiences are all elements which, in part, have the power to
change our outlook on life and alter our personality; it is yet the
mind, however, which fully determines our reaction. To illustrate this
point, allow me to create the following scenario; two women, both of
whom enjoy a life of queenly leisure, are one day forced to face their
husbands' untimely death, thereby obliterating a prime factor in their
story book existence. One woman, quite distressed, solemnly prepares
for her husband's funeral arrangements. After the initial shock of his
sudden departure from the earth, she is able to settle into her daily
routine once again.
The other woman, however, is completely unable to accept the solid
truth that her husband is dead. She pines remorsefully through each
day and wearies her friends with her incessant lamentations. So
obsessed with the mourning of her late husband is she, that she
eventually falls into deep depression and seeks the aid of a
psychiatrist.
Thus we have seen two instances which have had numerous circumstances
in common, yet the manner in which the women reacted to their
misfortune was markedly different. This leads me to believe that an
individual is essentially who he will ever be at birth, excluding, of
course, those accidental occurrences which mar and sometimes obliterate
certain abilities of both mind and body.
Despite my belief that a person will be essentially unchanged from his
mental and behavioral patterns as determined at birth, there is within
each individual a certain ability to change; however, the potential
must be there. One cannot become someone or something for which he
lacks all foundation.
That which allows an individual to overcome the reins of selfishness
and base behavior, and to grow toward the best image of himself is
awareness. It is the key to change and self-improvement, and through
these qualities I believe it also sets one free.
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