The Burrum population honour a rigid dowry scheme, which consists of
payment of a horse and five goats. Marriage is not recognised until the
dowry has been paid. If a couple elect to go in double domestic harness
without that preliminary, all children born to them can be claimed by the
woman’s father. Should a wife desert her husband for another, he must
pay the original consort the counterpart of the dowry. Failure to do so,
or husband number 1 declining to accept the solatium, children born to
the couple are forfeit to the grass-widower. Their value is apparent.
The girls would be a source of potential wealth to whoever gave them in
marriage, whilst the boys could be set to work on the farm from an early
age.
With the Angass tribe courting is a perpetual leap-year, for the girl
selects the husband and tells her mother whom she has chosen. Of course,
Barkis must be willing, as the dowry is from 20 to 30 sheep. Provided
the prospective bridegroom is agreeable, he liquidates the dowry by
instalments, leaving about seven sheep to be paid when the girl is to go
to him. That is decided by her mother, upon which the balance is handed
over. There is no special wedding ceremony. The marriage tie is a loose
one. If the girl does not find her husband congenial she is free to leave
him, but her parents or the next husband refund the dowry. Until she
marries again she is at liberty to distribute her qualities as a wife to
whom she likes and to as many as she pleases.
In this tribe no marriages are permitted among blood relatives or even
with those connected by family.
[Illustration: GIRL OF THE JARAWA TRIBE.
The cuts on the face are made when she reaches the age of puberty.]
[Illustration: A PAGAN BEAUTY OF THE DASS TRIBE.
The incisions on the face are tribal marks.]
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On the demise of a father who has grown-up sons, in most tribes his
possessions pass to them. A widow becomes the property of the eldest of
any sons the deceased husband may have had by another wife. At times
this works out that the widows are divided up among the sons. It may be
assumed that the practice is a hardship on the head of the household
which takes in the widow. By no means. The man who wishes to marry her
has to pay dowry to her guardian, and, in the meantime, or if she is on
his hands altogether, a woman is always welcomed to help in the field or
to relieve another from cooking for that purpose. As a matter of fact,
unless quite aged, widows go off splendidly. They are usually a thorough
success. As was explained to me on a previous journey by a Chief in
another country who offered a rather ancient matrimonial gift from his
own ample store, it is not always the youngest who are the most tractable
or industrious.
On the death of a widow having a young family her property, i.e., the
children, go to her husband’s brother.
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