To My Younger Brethren: Chapters on Pastoral Life and WorkMoule, H. C. G. (Handley Carr Glyn)
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To My Younger Brethren: Chapters on Pastoral Life and Work
Moule, H. C. G. (Handley Carr Glyn)
Pastoral theology
Surely one good maxim on manner with our poorer neighbours is to aim to
address them very much as we would address our neighbours of our own
class. A patronizing manner is most certainly a very great pity, and
almost sure to be resented. But so, too, is the ostentatious
"hail-and-well-met" manner which is sometimes assumed; an over-drawn
imitation, perhaps, of the workman's manner with his fellows. This is a
mistake, because it is almost always unnatural. Few gentlemen get better
at others by ceasing to act and speak as gentlemen. Let us talk quite
quietly and pleasantly, as just what we are, and as those who most
unaffectedly "honour all men," [1 Pet. ii. 17.] and we shall not go far
astray; always supposing that the matter of our talk is sensible, true,
and to the purpose.
THE SICK-ROOM.
To turn aside for a moment to the special and sacred work of Visitation
of the Sick. It is not to be lightly done, as if it were an easy part of
our duty, quite obvious in its aims and methods. The greatest judgment
is often needed in the sick-room. We need quickness to perceive how much
conversation the invalid can bear, if the case is one of great pain, or
(what often makes undue length even more irksome) great weakness. We
need an insight into the best side of approach to conscience, or to
will. We need the skill which knows how to question enough, but not too
much, not as the inquisitor but as the helper. Many another matter will
call for sanctified common-sense in the sick-room; a restful _voice_,
easy, quiet _movements_, and the like. And let me say that where you are
visiting a chronic case, and need to call again and again, if a day and
hour for the next visit is mentioned it should be _kept to_ with
jealous punctuality. Nothing is more trying to the suffering and weary
than uncertainty and suspense. I have known of much harm done to good
men's influence by their neglect of punctuality with sick people.
PUNCTUALITY.
Of punctuality generally I can (and surely need) speak only in passing.
It is a primary duty of the busy but patient work of the pastorate. To
be neglectful of it is to set up and keep up a needless and mischievous
friction in our intercourse with others, and indefinitely to injure our
influence in many ways. "No man ever waited five minutes for me in my
life, unless for reasons quite beyond my power;" such was a remark of
Charles Simeon's in his last days. _We_ may be for ever unable to say
this of our own past. But if so, shall it not be true for us also _from
this day forward_?
USE OF THE BIBLE IN VISITING.
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