Tokology : $b A book for every womanStockham, Alice B. (Alice Bunker)
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Tokology : $b A book for every woman
Stockham, Alice B. (Alice Bunker)
Women -- Health and hygiene
“Pregnancy, five months, accompanied by hysteria; unlike herself,
she is irritable, fretful and morose; sleeps but little, and has no
patience with the children or servants.”
This is no unusual case. I found Mrs. B. living in a handsome
three-story dwelling elegantly furnished. Every luxury was at her
command. She had a delicate, sensitive organization, extremely
susceptible to all influences. Her five children were full of spirit,
noisy and exacting. A late breakfast caused hurry and confusion
in preparation for school. Upon arriving I found my lady weeping
uncontrollably, and apparently in great trouble. I took her hand,
saying: “My poor child, what is it?”
“Oh, I wish I could get away from myself; life is not worth living.”
“None can do that; tell me all, and let us see if your sorrows and ills
cannot be alleviated.”
The truth was that, although an indulged wife, her burdens were beyond
her strength. The Irish cook, good-natured and efficient, had been
detected in carrying provisions to a sick friend. The second girl had
a beau every night, who remained so late that she had insufficient
sleep. In consequence she was fretful to the children and unfitted for
all her duties. The youngest child, still a mere baby, was teething and
required attention night and day. Though surrounded by every comfort
that love could procure, her strength was too greatly taxed. Later in
the day her husband called at my office.
He says: “What is _your_ diagnosis, doctor?”
“Overtaxed; her nervous system is worn out.”
“Why, she has all the help she wants, and needs to do nothing.”
“True; but there is no help to be had for the very things that have
worn her out. No one can take a mother’s place. She has children too
fast for her strength. She is a conscientious mother, desiring to
give every child proper training. To do this requires that domestic
arrangements be systematic and complete. Successful housekeeping, under
modern improvements, requires the combined heads of an army general and
a secretary of state.”
“Well, doctor, what is your prescription?”
“Take her away from it all.”
“Where had she better go?”
“To her mother, a hygienic institute, or what is better, can’t you get
away from business awhile, and go with her yourself? It would do her a
world of good. Have a second honeymoon; let her see, hear and do what
pleases her best, and, mark my word, you will be well paid.”
“I declare! I never thought of matters in that light before. I believe
that you are right. I can get away next week, and I will. Mother can
come in and take care of the children while we are gone just as well as
not.”
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