A yielding temper, when not carefully watched and curbed, is one of the
most dangerous of faults. Like unregulated generosity, it is apt to
carry its owner into a thousand difficulties, and, too frequently, to
hurry him into vice, if not into crimes. But as it is of advantage to
others while inflicting injury upon its possessor, it has, by the common
consent of mankind, received a fine name, which covers its follies and
promotes its growth. This easiness of disposition, which is a compound
of indolence, vanity, and irresolution, is known and applauded as
“good-nature;” and, to have reached the superlative degree, so as to be
called the “best-natured fellow in the world—almost too good-natured
for his own good,” is regarded as a lofty merit.
The “best-natured fellow in the world” is merely a convenience; very
useful to others, but worse than useless to himself. He is the bridge
across the brook, and men walk over him. He is the wandering pony of the
Pampas, seeking his own provender, yet ridden by those who contribute
not to his support. He giveth up all the sunshine, and hath nothing but
chilling shade for himself. He waiteth at the table of the world,
serveth the guests, who clear the board, and, for food and pay, give him
fine words, which culinary research hath long since ascertained cannot
be used with profit, even in the buttering of parsnips. He is, in fact,
an appendage, not an individuality; and when worn out, as he soon must
be, is thrown aside to make room for another, if another can be had.
Such is the result of excessive compliance and obsequious good-nature.
It plundereth a man of his spine, and converteth him into a flexible
willow, to be bent and twisted as his companions choose, and, should it
please them, to be wreathed into a fish-basket.
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