Transmission; or, Variation of Character Through the MotherKirby, Georgiana Bruce
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Transmission; or, Variation of Character Through the Mother
Kirby, Georgiana Bruce
Heredity, Human
During courtship it is the habit of the mind to avoid all topics
on which disagreement is anticipated. This comes of a longing for
sympathy, and a fear of losing whatever degree of it is possible
between the parties. It is a dangerous course, and imperils future
happiness, because after marriage all disguises are sure to be dropped,
and the want of harmony in opinion and feeling becomes at once
prominent.
Under such circumstances an excellent young man of our acquaintance,
whom we will call N., became the husband of a lady of equally
admirable, but wholly different character, by name C. A few months of
married life sufficed to reveal the width of the gulf between them. It
could not be ignored. Their estimate of individuals, actions, looks,
were always at variance. Shrinking from the pain of dissent, C. learned
to limit her conversation to the very simplest matters of household
occurrence, then to the baby, who seemed to have inherited all the
inharmony of the alliance, never content, always awake.
Other children were born to them, capable, conscientious children,
wanting serene affection and contentment, as only love can beget love.
So the years went on, when circumstances threw N. almost daily into the
society of one of those women who appeal directly to the passions of a
man--a handsome animal, with no scruples of conscience as to the misery
she might bring on another woman. N. felt more at home in the company
of one below his own plane, than with one who was above it, and plunged
at once into what is politely termed a _liason_.
While this affair was at its height, C. found herself pregnant; and her
husband expressing his annoyance at the prospect of another child, and
dreading the effect on the child of her own desolation and sense of
wrong, she would have rejoiced could she have brought on the menstrual
flow. Finding this an impossibility at so early a stage, and unwilling
to risk injuring the child later on, she made up her mind to do her
“level best” and bear it. By sheer force of will, and by the most
passionate prayer for help from Above, to enable her to live above her
surroundings, to save her from bearing malice; shutting her eyes to the
cruel insensibility of N. and his affinity, keeping them open to the
needs of others, she lived day by day, working, aspiring, dreading lest
her efforts should fail to save her child, determined that he _should_
be saved.
The effect of her high endeavor astonished even herself. She had lifted
him above the clouds and put him _en rapport_ with greater good and
wiser wisdom than came to the other children. His nature proved to be
hopeful and trustful, with more affection to bestow on the mother who
had thus struggled for him, than sons usually feel for mothers, and
more force of intellect than easier conditions would have ensured.
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