Transmission; or, Variation of Character Through the MotherKirby, Georgiana Bruce
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Transmission; or, Variation of Character Through the Mother
Kirby, Georgiana Bruce
Heredity, Human
“I call him my consolation,” said his mother. “He can do _anything_,
and he does it so easily, so quietly.” And, indeed, the way in which
this refined lad handed you your plate, your glass of milk, or cup
of coffee, gave a dignity to the meal, while conferring honor on all
parties concerned. The phrase “menial labor” had no significance when
he was basting the meat or ironing the “belated” table-cloths for his
mother.
Usually, when a woman in very straitened circumstances has an extremely
large family, she presently becomes oppressed and discouraged. Her
ambition is foiled. She can neither clothe, educate, nor train the
children properly, and the latest comers are apt to have a poorer
make-up--a fag-end sort of air. Here, on the contrary, was the flower
of the flock, a youth full of _faculty_, at home on the piano-forte
stool as at the knife-board, _determined to sustain his mother_ at all
hazards.
I sought eagerly the explanation of this phenomenon, and the happy
mother in full, varied, and affectionate tones, gladly replied to my
inquiries.
“When I found myself pregnant with my tenth child, the nine were
living and all at home. My husband’s salary--he was a preacher--was
between three and four hundred dollars a year. Fortunately, we owned
the little place on which we lived, and yet, if you will recall those
Eastern winters, you will realize the great difficulty I had in keeping
us all clothed as well as fed. It seemed to me not a virtue, but a
sin, to bring more children into the world, and I made up my mind that
_this_ should be the _very last_. I would take matters into my own
hands.
“But the thing now to be thought of was a little clothing for the
expected baby. I had not a rag to make over, not a dollar for the
purpose.
“At this juncture a gentleman, an agent for some religious publication
house, called, and as the custom was, I asked him to spend the day,
which he did, and I had considerable talk with him. He left, and
returned while I was preparing supper, and seemed greatly surprised to
find that I had no help. ‘What! _nine_ children to cook and sew for,
and no help!’ He had never supposed such a thing possible. I explained
that I had a _primitive_ constitution, but still I found myself giving
way lately. Whenever I had a trifle ready to pay out, which was very
seldom, I employed, it was true, a woman poorer than myself, but less
burdened, to do the washing. His astonishment, however, continued.
“A week or two after this visit, I received a letter from a distant
city, saying that my case had made a profound impression on him, and
that having met with a coterie of ladies belonging to a certain
congregation who were anxious to assist some missionary, or help in
some other good cause, he had mentioned me and my circumstances, and
they were of one mind, eager to help me, and wished to know if I would
accept a present in the spirit in which it was offered; and if so,
would I indicate what things would be most useful to me.
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