Travels in the Interior of Africa — Volume 02Park, Mungo
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Travels in the Interior of Africa — Volume 02
Park, Mungo
Africa -- Discovery and exploration; Niger River
In the course of this celebration it frequently happens that some of the
young women get married. If a man takes a fancy to any one of them, it
is not considered as absolutely necessary that he should make an overture
to the girl herself. The first object is to agree with the parents
concerning the recompense to be given them for the loss of the company
and services of their daughter. The value of two slaves is a common
price, unless the girl is thought very handsome, in which case the
parents will raise their demand very considerably. If the lover is rich
enough, and willing to give the sum demanded, he then communicates his
wishes to the damsel; but her consent is by no means necessary to the
match, for if the parents agree to it and eat a few _kolla_-nuts, which
are represented by the suitor as an earnest of the bargain, the young
lady must either have the man of their choice or continue unmarried, for
she cannot afterwards be given to another. If the parents should attempt
it, the lover is then authorised by the laws of the country to seize upon
the girl as his slave. When the day for celebrating the nuptials is
fixed on, a select number of people are invited to be present at the
wedding—a bullock or goat is killed, and great plenty of victuals is
dressed for the occasion. As soon as it is dark the bride is conducted
into a hut, where a company of matrons assist in arranging the
wedding-dress, which is always white cotton, and is put on in such a
manner as to conceal the bride from head to foot. Thus arrayed, she is
seated upon a mat in the middle of the floor, and the old women place
themselves in a circle round her. They then give her a series of
instructions, and point out, with great propriety, what ought to be her
future conduct in life. This scene of instruction, however, is
frequently interrupted by girls, who amuse the company with songs and
dances, which are rather more remarkable for their gaiety than delicacy.
While the bride remains within the hut with the women the bridegroom
devotes his attention to the guests of both sexes, who assemble without
doors, and by distributing among them small presents of kolla-nuts, and
seeing that every one partakes of the good cheer which is provided, he
contributes much to the general hilarity of the evening. When supper is
ended, the company spend the remainder of the night in singing and
dancing, and seldom separate until daybreak. About midnight the bride is
privately conducted by the women into the hut which is to be her future
residence, and the bridegroom, upon a signal given, retires from his
company.
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