Travels through Central Africa to Timbuctoo; and across the Great Desert, to Morocco, performed in the years 1824-1828, Vol. 1 (of 2)Caillié, René
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Travels through Central Africa to Timbuctoo; and across the Great Desert, to Morocco, performed in the years 1824-1828, Vol. 1 (of 2)
Caillié, René
Sahara -- Description and travel; Sudan (Region) -- Description and travel
The toilet of the Moorish ladies is not confined to the use of henna;
the lady in question had her hair dressed; her tresses, which hung
on her shoulders, were smeared with a sort of ointment, made of
butter, pounded cloves, and water; and adorned with amber, coral,
and bits of glass of different colours. I had never seen a Mooress
so bedizened before.
In the evening I went to look for the lover; a young Moor accompanied
me. We met him close to the camp, and I concluded that he was going to
his intended; but he told me, on the contrary, that he did not chuse to
pass by her tent, and that he was on the way to one of his friends. I
expressed my surprise, and he told me that he wished to avoid the
lady’s relations; on this subject we had a long conversation,
the substance of which is as follows.
When a young man becomes attached to a girl, and wishes to marry her,
he seeks her in secret, and obtains her consent. That point secured,
he commissions a marabout to treat with the girl’s relations, as to
the presents which he is to make, the number of oxen he is to give to
the bride’s mother &c. This being arranged, the marabout who has
undertaken the negotiation informs the other marabouts, when they
are assembled to prayer, the lover himself being present. From this
moment the lover is not to see the father and mother of his future
bride; he takes the greatest care to avoid them, and if by chance they
perceive him they cover their faces, as if all the ties of friendship
were broken. I tried in vain to discover the origin of this whimsical
custom; the only answer I could obtain was, “It is our way.”
I did not like to suppose that a connexion of this kind could destroy
the esteem and affection which had previously subsisted between the
two families, and I took some pains to ascertain whether it was so or
not; I often talked to a father of his son-in-law and _vice versâ_;
and I found that the indifference was only feigned, that they felt
the same affection as before, and in conversation extolled one
another’s merit.
The custom extends beyond the relations; if the lover is of a different
camp, he avoids all the inhabitants of the lady’s camp, except a
few intimate friends whom he is permitted to visit. A little tent is
generally set up for him, under which he remains all day, and if he
is obliged to come out, or to cross the camp, he covers his face. He
is not allowed to see his intended during the day, but, when every
body is at rest, he creeps into her tent and remains with her till
day-break. This indiscreet method of courtship lasts for a month or
two; after which the marriage is solemnized by a marabout. The mother
of the bride gives a feast, and kills an ox if she can afford it;
providing abundance of couscous and sangleh for the guests, who are
sure to be numerous. The women collect round the bride, singing her
praises and amusing themselves the whole of the day; I have seen some
of them dance.
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