The males considerably outnumber the females. This holds true of many
of the islands of Polynesia, although the reverse of what is the case
in most civilized countries. The girls are first wooed and won, at a
very tender age, by some stripling in the household in which they
reside. This, however, is a mere frolic of the affections, and no
formal engagement is contracted. By the time this first love has a
little subsided, a second suitor presents himself, of graver years, and
carries both boy and girl away to his own habitation. This
disinterested and generous-hearted fellow now weds the young
couple—marrying damsel and lover at the same time—and all three
thenceforth live together as harmoniously as so many turtles. I have
heard of some men who in civilized countries rashly marry large
families with their wives, but had no idea that there was any place
where people married supplementary husbands with them. Infidelity on
either side is very rare. No man has more than one wife, and no wife of
mature years has less than two husbands,—sometimes she has three, but
such instances are not frequent. The marriage tie, whatever it may be,
does not appear to be indissoluble; for separations occasionally
happen. These, however, when they do take place, produce no
unhappiness, and are preceded by no bickerings: for the simple reason,
that an ill-used wife or a hen-pecked husband is not obliged to file a
bill in chancery to obtain a divorce. As nothing stands in the way of a
separation, the matrimonial yoke sits easily and lightly, and a Typee
wife lives on very pleasant and sociable terms with her husbands. On
the whole, wedlock, as known among these Typees, seems to be of a more
distinct and enduring nature than is usually the case with barbarous
people.
But, notwithstanding its existence among them, the scriptural
injunction to increase and multiply seems to be but indifferently
attended to. I never saw any of those large families, in arithmetical
or step-ladder progression, which one often meets with at home. I never
knew of more than two youngsters living together in the same home, and
but seldom even that number. As for the women, it was very plain that
the anxieties of the nursery but seldom disturbed the serenity of their
souls; and they were never seen going about the valley with half a
score of little ones tagging at their apron-strings, or rather at the
bread-fruit leaf they usually wore in the rear.
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