without the approbation of the priests and the senate, they give him
none of the honours of a decent funeral, but throw his body into a
ditch.
“Their women are not married before eighteen nor their men before
two-and-twenty, and if any of them run into forbidden embraces before
marriage they are severely punished, and the privilege of marriage is
denied them unless they can obtain a special warrant from the Prince.
Such disorders cast a great reproach upon the master and mistress of
the family in which they happen, for it is supposed that they have
failed in their duty. The reason of punishing this so severely is,
because they think that if they were not strictly restrained from all
vagrant appetites, very few would engage in a state in which they
venture the quiet of their whole lives, by being confined to one
person, and are obliged to endure all the inconveniences with which it
is accompanied. In choosing their wives they use a method that would
appear to us very absurd and ridiculous, but it is constantly observed
among them, and is accounted perfectly consistent with wisdom. Before
marriage some grave matron presents the bride, naked, whether she is a
virgin or a widow, to the bridegroom, and after that some grave man
presents the bridegroom, naked, to the bride. We, indeed, both laughed
at this, and condemned it as very indecent. But they, on the other
hand, wondered at the folly of the men of all other nations, who, if
they are but to buy a horse of a small value, are so cautious that they
will see every part of him, and take off both his saddle and all his
other tackle, that there may be no secret ulcer hid under any of them,
and that yet in the choice of a wife, on which depends the happiness or
unhappiness of the rest of his life, a man should venture upon trust,
and only see about a handsbreadth of the face, all the rest of the body
being covered, under which may lie hid what may be contagious as well
as loathsome. All men are not so wise as to choose a woman only for her
good qualities, and even wise men consider the body as that which adds
not a little to the mind, and it is certain there may be some such
deformity covered with clothes as may totally alienate a man from his
wife, when it is too late to part with her; if such a thing is
discovered after marriage a man has no remedy but patience; they,
therefore, think it is reasonable that there should be good provision
made against such mischievous frauds.
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