In this connection it is worth noting that the foreigner in China suffers from a chronic embarrassment as to how to address a Chinese. There is in the language no term answering to our Mister or Master, the nearest equivalent being the words Elder-born or Seignor (_Hsien-shêng_). The expression properly connotes a Teacher in reality or by courtesy, and although applied indiscriminately to blind men (even if they should be beggars) will not serve for general use. Honourific terms abound, but in the rural regions these are not in use, and are but dimly comprehensible. On the principle that "Within the four seas all are brethren," it is the Chinese habit to _assume the existence_ of a relationship, so that the passing stranger may appropriately call out to one whom he has never seen before: "Great elder-brother may I borrow your light and inquire whether this is the right road to Peking?" Should the person addressed be an old man, the title would be changed to Uncle or Grandfather. The fact that the term for an older uncle differs from that for a younger one, embarrasses the foreigner by forcing upon him a decision of the difficult question which one to use, for deciding which point he often has absolutely no data. A Chinese married woman has literally no name at all, but only two surnames, her husband's and her father's, so that when these chance to be common ones, it is impossible by this means to discriminate one woman from another. If Chinese women are to be addressed by strangers at all, there is even more embarrassment than in the case of men. In some regions the term Elder-sister-in-law (_sao-tzŭ_) serves indiscriminately for any woman, but in others Aunt (_la-niang_) must be used, while in yet others nothing is appropriate but Grandmother (_nai-nai_) which elsewhere would be equivalent to Old Granny. When there happen to be three generations of women in the same family to dub them all "Grandmother" (especially if one of them is a girl in her teens just married) is flagrantly absurd. Beggars at the other gates clamour to have their "Aunts" bestow a little food, and the phrase Old Lady (_lao T'ai-t'ai_) is in constant use for any woman past middle life. The age at which a boy is too large to be carried is a very indefinite one, and it is common to see distracted mothers staggering with their little goat-feet under the weight of children half their own size, lugging their offspring about for the reason that "they would not stand it" to be put down. A preparatory discipline of this nature is not adapted to teach children independence, self-control, or any useful lessons, and the result is such as might have been expected. But the Chinese child is an eminently practical being, and he finds by experience that, when there are half a dozen children smaller than himself, the period of his own supreme rule has passed away, and has passed away never to return. To this altered condition he soon learns to adapt himself.