What a Young Wife Ought to KnowDrake, Emma F. Angell (Emma Frances Angell)
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What a Young Wife Ought to Know
Drake, Emma F. Angell (Emma Frances Angell)
Infants -- Care; Marriage; Women -- Health and hygiene
Young men of high attainment and noble purposes, there is still something
for you to do, to transmit the best to your progeny. Make the noblest in
you still nobler, root out the weeds, attain greater heights every year,
seek nobler companionship among books and men, choose for your mate the
woman whose desires and ambitions are like your own, and your children
will be a blessing to you and the world, and may well “rise up to call
you blessed.”
To the other class of young men, we have only to say, there should be
before them many years of rooting and weeding and killing out, and hard
preparation, before they should dare ask any good women to be their
wives. Aye, more, before they should even dare to ask a woman like
themselves, for think of the double inheritance of such unfortunate
children as might be theirs; and think again how the world is cursed with
such disinherited humanity now.
The motto
“Without halting, without rest,
Pushing better up to best,”
should be the sentiment of every young man, in view of his preparation
for fatherhood. It is a lamentable fact that children have as often
reason to lament their parentage, as parents their wayward children. But
it is probably a merciful thing that most children of this class never
realize it—merciful at least for them and their parents, but not for the
coming generations.
Remember you are to reproduce yourself, and in large measure what you are
yourself that will your children be. Measure yourself carefully, take
account of stock and see what there is that you would have different,
what you would make better, what you would eradicate, what new qualities
you would engraft. The little children, to be, in your home who are to
call you father, are not only to copy you when they are large enough and
wise enough in their love to wish to be like you; but they come into
existence with inborn tendencies, that perforce make them like you,
whether they will or not. Happy the parents whose children never regret
their inheritances.
“It isn’t all in the bringing up,
Let folks say what they will,
You may silver polish a pewter cup,
But it will be pewter still.”
CHAPTER X.
ANTENATAL INFANTICIDE.
The Alarming Prevalence of This Hideous Sin.—How Daughters
are Initiated.—How Expectant Mothers Appeal to Reputable
Physicians.—Young Women Should be Taught to Associate the Idea
of Marriage with Motherhood.—Destruction of own Health and Life
go Hand in Hand with Prenatal Murder.—Effect of Such Attempts
Upon the Physical Life and Character.—Life from the Moment of
Conception.—The Injustice and Cruel Wrongs Inflicted upon Wives
by Uncontrolled Passions of Husbands.—Obligation of Motherhood
Should be Recognized.—Its Blessings.—The Duty of the Physician
as Educator of Public Sentiment.
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